There is an option to receive e-mail notification when you have received a new private message.

If you get an e-mail saying you have received a new private message as follows, it also says in large capital letters DO NOT REPLY TO THIS EMAIL, because what happens is that it comes into the site admin inbox then one of us has to work out who it has come from and then forward it on.

If you receive e-mails from the site, please, please read them carefully and follow the instructions.

Thank you.