down in the ditch ...
Posted 09-11-06 at 10:14 AM by HappyHands
I have woken up with a real shi*y head on...i don,t know what is wrong with me..
I feel fat. unloved and well and truley depressed.. my birthday did not get any better yesturday all we did was sat on the settee watching t.v (well his programmes) and then he had the gauel to ask me if i have had a good day dddrrrrrhhhh, like someone said "its the small things we like"
Maybe i am grumpy all the time 'i feel it' i have no fashion sence.. i have completly let myself go... the house is a sh** hole... i just feel like sitting here and crying my eyes out...
I,m 34 yrs old but feel i,m 100 and turning into my mother... i,m not one to tell my hubby how i feel cos whenever i do he has a great way of turning it round and makeing me feel like an ungreatful bit**.. maybe i,m that as well i just don,t know anymore,
It probally does not help that for valentines day i got NOTHING and for mothers day i got NOTHING.. he did not even tell the kids it was mothers day and to top it all off HE went and played golf all day.. no wonder i feel so unloved right now..
I feel fat. unloved and well and truley depressed.. my birthday did not get any better yesturday all we did was sat on the settee watching t.v (well his programmes) and then he had the gauel to ask me if i have had a good day dddrrrrrhhhh, like someone said "its the small things we like"
Maybe i am grumpy all the time 'i feel it' i have no fashion sence.. i have completly let myself go... the house is a sh** hole... i just feel like sitting here and crying my eyes out...
I,m 34 yrs old but feel i,m 100 and turning into my mother... i,m not one to tell my hubby how i feel cos whenever i do he has a great way of turning it round and makeing me feel like an ungreatful bit**.. maybe i,m that as well i just don,t know anymore,
It probally does not help that for valentines day i got NOTHING and for mothers day i got NOTHING.. he did not even tell the kids it was mothers day and to top it all off HE went and played golf all day.. no wonder i feel so unloved right now..
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Re: down in the ditch ...
Right have a good cry and get it out of your system, then put it behind you. go out and do something for YOU today. the world is what you make it so don't let your ****hole of a hubby spoil it for you. Make today the day that you turn your life around, go shopping (thre's some great bargains on Ebay if you are skint) and get some hot sexy mamma clothes and FEEL GOOD!Posted 09-11-06 at 10:32 AM by Sassy Hassy
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if the good cry doesn't do the trick then get yourself off to the doctors and have a chat with them, you might need a bit of help to get you through the tough time you're having lately with your son
xxxPosted 09-11-06 at 10:34 AM by ValencianNails
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What a crappy day! I agree with Sassy, go out and make yourself feel good. Have a good day!Posted 09-11-06 at 10:44 AM by Brandywine
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Hope your day gets better, sent you a little gift, hope it cheers you up!Posted 09-11-06 at 11:18 AM by Rach
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oh bless u honey!!!u need to take yourself out for the day and pamper YOU!!!buy yourself some new clothes as a birthday treat then u won't feel frumpy-maybe get your hair done-and sod him-if he wants to sit in front of the tv all night-go out with some mates and get bladdered!!! hope u feel happier soon babe!xxxxxxxPosted 09-11-06 at 11:37 AM by carend
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nite out with the girlies.... get ready together like in the old days and have a drink whilst doing so... after the hangover your'll have a lot to smile about!!! xxPosted 09-11-06 at 12:49 PM by extensionten
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I hope you are feeling a bit better now love. If your hubby isn't looking out fr your happiness then bloody well make sure that you are. Give yourself a treat, whatever that might be, leave him to it at tea time and go out for a couple of hours, go out for a coffee and a big cake with your best mate, whatever it is that will make you feel better about yourself. Sending you a big Hug xxxPosted 09-11-06 at 01:50 PM by Hope
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I know how you feel hun, my husband is exactly the same...completly useless!!And you know the probs I have with my eldest...if you wanna talk pm mexxPosted 09-11-06 at 05:04 PM by *Garfield*
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I agree with the others Do Something For You! He does, sometimes a dose of their own medicine stirs them up a bit. Don't apologize for it either, for what you are dealing with he is lucky you have not spent every last nickel he has! Some nice little tablets from the ol' doctor just may be in order as well. Just don't mix with the booze. And remember to wear your sunglasses cuz when you are cool the sun is always shining on you!Posted 10-11-06 at 07:03 AM by nailsbychristy
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down in the ditch
hi hun bigggggggggg huggggggggg sounds like he taking you for granted get out of the house for a bit try to stay out when tea normally on so when he get bk it will kick his lazy a### maybe make him think wot he will lose if he carries onPosted 03-03-08 at 01:01 PM by deehair
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