Good teeth, intense eyes and a nice butt!

Attracts ? well looks are always good with nice hair teeth, etc, but most of all they've got to have personality/humour and make me smile/laugh, but thats a rare thing !! as their ego normally spoils it for me.

So realistically, it got to be personality and a good mind, love the mad/quirky ones lol, oh and someone who would put you 1st rather than themselves, I've got my perfect man, (23 yrs + now) he worships the ground I walk on bless him, oh and he lets me hassle him majority the of the time

Kind, but not a push over
Compansionate, but honest
Brave, loyal and not easily intimidated but would never be unkind or cruel

and a really really big "Bank balance" would help!

....someone who can get past the small talk....and someone philisophical

Is there such a beastie out there

Id like to add one more thing to my list of needs in a man lol

Commitment!! Which is almost impossible to find in a man aged 20-25
The bloke cannot be a commit-phobe

Oh and they have to dress nice

Dimple in his chin, nice wide shoulders and a fantastically pinch able bum
pwwwwaaaaa

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Commitment!! Which is almost impossible to find in a man aged 20-25
The bloke cannot be a commit-phobe

Hun, man 20-25 = commit phobe

i think good teeth are very important too.probably because i like a nice smile.
i also like nice skin. relatively hairless body. i find hairy neck back and shoulders revolting. i find tall more atractive than short.

i like a man to be well spoken and be good at what ever it is he does for a living. i dont care what he does for a job, but he must have pride in his work and do it properly. i particularly like a practical man who can fix things and make things.

he should be patient and calm. i loathe stroppy moaning arrogant men, however handsome and successful they might be. personality is definately a winner in the long term and so is humour.

[quote=Susie H;933204]Oh yes im aware I suppose i have to start venturing to the even older men But then you come across the other problem which is the mid life crises

So 25-30 you have 5 years to get them in the bag, have the babies, get married

30-40 they go through mid life crises

50+ you just dont find them attractive anymore

I'm attracted to men who are sensitive, caring, loving and kind. But really rich with a big w*lly is also fine.

Good looking with a good sense of humour

ok we all want the fairy tale prince charming..(prince william hubba hubba come to mommy...hehehe) but seriously if that what we really want the closest we're gonna get is a sugardaddy...ROFL with a great lover on the side...hehe

well for me its gotta be a mixture of all the bad stuff lol

looking back at all my previous partners i really think i need to get some sense and change myself lol

they have all been:
charming
pretty
bodyguards or military
tattoos
funny

oh and b**tards!!! haha

BUT i am in love with Julian Mcmahon, he is dreamy hehe x

[quote=Violet Star;933254]Well I married him when he was 32 and I was 22, had the kids over the next 4 years, coming up 25 years together, he's 55 and he still rocks my boat, its just that the boat creaks a bit these days