I think it's good to vent these things, makes us all feel a bit more normal lol

Yeah we can make eachother feel good

Ok here is option 2 ladies red previous dress or this white one?

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Right i think the first dress,the red on is much better....much more classy

Secondly making the transition from size 8 to 10 is a bloomin normal thing...i was a size 4 many years ago and i am 5 ft 10....now a normal and healthy size 10/12....and i echo everything susie said about insecurities!

Thirdly there is nothing wrong with having small breasts,wether they be satsumas,golf balls or grapes....just embrace them...actually i call mine burger baps

Thank you for the reassurance hunni
No doubt when i do go and buy the dress ill pick up a size 8 and a size 10 and see if i can fit into the 8. With dresses its weird sometimes i can get into an 8.
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It's not really about the smallest size you can fit in, it's the size that looks best and flatters you! I used to try to squeaze into size 8's when I was a 10, and even though they would fit me, a bigger size just looked better and more flattering.

When I was younger I would eat anything I liked and stayed slim, but found as I got older with motabilism changing and all that, eating what I like got me a bit bigger lol But with age you also learn not to give too much of a damn!

Anyway, The white dress is nice but a bit on the casual side compared to the red one

I was a size 10 when I got married and my 14 year old daughter cant fit my dress, 2 girls and a set of twins later I am now a HAPPY size 16! AND my partner recons I look older when I was younger if that makes sense and prefers me with some weight on !

Go for the red one its fun and classy ! x

I love the red dress....

but love the back of the white dress....

So thats no help whatsoever

I would be happy to get down to a size 14/16

I couldn't be a size less than that....I just couldn't maintain it in a month of Sunday's so I have never tried or aimed for it. I would love to be a size 10/12....but for my mental health I couldn't....

I love food...I love eating...I love the socialising side of it...and I would rather be an ample woman than deny myself my grub

And if I have to wear bin liners so be it!!!!!

What is the party for anyway? That might help with the dress buying decisions....

Ohhh i so dont deny myself of my grub. I eat like a horse and am not willing to give up eating any fatty foods or my favorite foods.... i love eating too much!

The party is for my sisters 30th birthday/engagement party

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Well in that case I think the red dress would be perfect....

and to you for being able to eat and stay a size 10....life is unfair ( mind you pre-kids I could do that too...so my fault for getting pregnant too many times )

Give me time

Ok, i love the dress ur thinking of & i blame you for all the money i've just spent on the site whilst looking @ ur dress lolxx

Got to be the red one

Oh dear!! Dangerous grounds really posting a clothing website on here a website full of women

Just no1 buy the red dress in size 10