she probably got her punishment in the chop shop.

she'll be back when she sees the difference.

this has really made me laugh. we'v all had a customer like this.

totally depends on what you think you should do.

id just leave it, if she comes back she comes back,if shes bearable and books in just smile and take the cash. if you really cant be botherd tho tell her your full. if shes that bothered about having you as her tech shel keep trying to book in so you could just let it go,if not good ridence.

yeh we have to be nice as possible to people because afterall its a game and we do this for the money, but also you dont need to cope with a certain type of person thats forever gonna b a pain and make you worry.

there is bad people out there but they should learn you cant get through life talking to people like crap. these people are 1 out of a million so im sure it wouldnt effect your profits if you let her go.

Totally agree.

Oh and edit to add: PLEASE NO FLOWERS . . . only from her to you

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The worst thing is .... she has insulted me ..... and my relationship with her (and the extra care I take in doing her nails) quote]


I think I hear a price increase for the next time she calls!!!!

Gigi wrote:
"I got a real kick out of bending people my way. People who are rude or aggressive or moaners are unhappy people .. I used to like to make them happy. And I usually succeeded in doing so.

We were actually coached in that in school, "dealing with difficult people". How to carry yourself, etc. (then again in public school in the dark ages, they taught us deportment and manners....eeek!)

I would rather encourage new techs and old on here to do the same for the good health of their businesses.

And for their sanity. Its like law enforcement officers too...you gotta detach yourself to a certain extent, otherwise you'd go batty in a NY minute.

Not saying it isn't insulting, but take the "diss" from the source. Alternatively, you could remember that Karma *is* the great equaliser (My own personal mantra on all manner of bad behaviour...)

:-)

Nancy

o carl, this really is a kick in the guts.. just charge her more next time to file off the crap, but i understand you have spent time telling al she needs to know about the NSS but she still went, it sounds like to me she wanted to piss u off, and SHE WANTED THEM DONE NOW. i think WE have to realise they (THE CLIENT) is NOT OUR FRIEND , they are our pay check.. this is something i learnt very quickley

i am quite suprised with some of the responses to this thread...... and i am not having at go at any one person (its just the way that i have read this thread)........ I understand that many techs are pretty much one man bands so circumstanses are different.

I only work as a tech part time....my main job in in retail...for quite a large high street chain. If i stood on the door of the shop vetting all the customers as they came through the door and telling those that looked miserable/ depressed that they couldnt come in as they would make the staff unhappy....i know exactly what would happen. If we wernt taken to court for some kind of discrimination I am sure we would end upo getting bad press if not in the local newspapers then the national.

I was under the impression that people came to us to be pampered and made to feel good about them selves, if i have to sit there in silence at let them vent off then so be it....i dont have to listen do I?? Some people are just like that. But its all worth it when i take their money at the end of their appointment. I see where you are coming from with regards to client who constantly are no shows or are late....i do think i idea of getting them to phone on the day of their appointment to confirm is a good idea.

I had a client that i seriously could not fit in for a 4 week rebalance (she had cancelled one and then another as her son was starting school)....i tried my best but it was just not possible. She said she would go somewhere else this time and come back for her following appoinment...i was gutted.....but i knew she would be back.

With your situation nailzoo......i would have been so tempted to knock on the window....and quit suprised you didnt, lol!!
But i would wait and see if she books another appointment....she knows that you will know there is another tech work on her nails...so she may be embarressed to come back. If she doesnt i would may be phone her and ask why she hasnt rebooked....she may tell you the truth, and say that she would love to come back to you as you are the better tech!!! i dont know but that would give me the greater satisfaction.....and she will appreciate your work so much more from here on.

Oh dear I have a degree in Psychology...what does that say about me? Not a lot to be honest.

She may not be happy with her new nails and then will come back to you for her next appointment, in that case just continue as before making sure she has written down her future appointments.

If she prefers them then she has been taken off your hands and you won't have to think about her again and from the sounds of things you wouldn't be grieving her loss.

I can see how this would be annoying but it doesn't mean anything about you or your abilities, just that she was mad as she made a mistake and wanted her nails done then and there.

OOOOOOOOO I know how you feel

I had a client like this a month ago, but after having my whinge on here about her last time she sadly passed away during an epileptic fit.

I vowed never to complain about my clients again, and I havent.

I think its made me a better person in general and professionally.

Everyone handles situations differently, I wish I had now too !!!!

This has been an interesting thread and I can see the different points of view. It reminded me of years ago when I also did mobile hairdressing. My neighbour asked me to perm her hair. She became a client and I knew she had a few problems but just treated her the same as anyone else and did not get involved.

However I noticed that her behaviour started to change and one day when I was outside she came over to me hurling abuse and started to attack me. I was lucky my boyfriend at the time was there and he pulled her off me. I had bruising and was very shaken up. I phoned the Police and she was charged.

My point is that I never felt really comfortable doing her and I should of refused her as a client. I know this is rare but there are some people you cannot kick into touch and win around. If someone is causing you this much stress is their custom really worth it? Your other customers need you to be on top for them - the ones who really make it a pleasure to do business. When enough is enough - let them go.

Does anyone seriously think that in giving my advice earlier that I am suggesting that anyone hang on to seriously offencive or violent customers and try to win them around??? These clients are 'one offs'.

All I have been saying (although it is like banging my head against the wall with some ) is at least try with difficult clients, see it as a challenge to win them over and don't make it your first reaction to kick clients out the door. THAT is the point we should all make to new technicians who come to this site for good sound advice in my opinion.

In practically every post at the beginning of this thread .. sacking the client seemed to be the solution offered. THAT is not the way. Building your interpersonal skills is the way to a healthy and thriving business.

dont you think that sme clients are just so much ard work they border on mental abuse? some will go out of their way to be awkward, ungrateful, lower our self esteem... im not sure what my point is here lol, im kinda thinking out loud!

I'm sorry, I have not had that experience with clients and I do not suffer with low self esteem nor could anyone make me feel low about myself or my skill ... that is just me. I'm not a big head and I don't think I have a big ego .. I am proud of my skill though, and no one would be able to take that away from me.

Awkwardness in a client? I would I would try to over deliver on her expectations.
Ungrateful? I could not careless as long as she pays the bill ... she's bought something why does she need to be grateful to me?

I have made my point (I think I have anyway .. ) so I will not go through it all again. If, however, people cannot handle the public and their various moods, tempers, attitudes etc without their first instinct being to kick them out the door if they don't behave the way we want them to, then maybe one should not be working with the public at all?

I am the same as you Geeg, i am very confident in my skills and in myself, not everyone is though. how many threads are started on here by people who's esteem has been completely knocked by a vile client...

Like you i enjoy the challenge of my job and always strive to over deliver.

HOWEVER, some people give me very negative energy and literally suck the life out of me. These are the ones we could all do without.

Carl - you have the upper hand on her now!
You know she went into the chop shop, you know she'll have a poor job done & boy, will she know it too.

Sit back, smile to yourself and wait for her to come back as if nothings happened - no doubt minus her nails, as she would not have the guts to show you what the other place had done to your fabaroony nails. Nor would she want you to know she'd been there and realised what a pants job they did & how beautiful your work is on her hands.

Why the hell should you send her flowers! Sod that, she's already lost you an appointments worth of $$'s you don't need to creep round her, she'd bloody love that & treat you with the same attitude she had before. Don't make any contact with her - she'll do all the running if she knows your work is the best & all her mates nails are not a patch on what you do for her. She'll be shamed if she has to show poor quality work to her mates now wouldn't she.

She'll be back.......you'll find her a slot to suit you & then she'll think twice about doing that again.