Are these supposed to appear on the recipients screen straight away or only when they change page?

I find it so frustrating to answer a PM and I sit there fore ages waiting for them to answer and then they log off (I've discussed my insecurity with my therapist). Any suggestions?

i think its only with a page change...so if they read a page and log off without changing page they wouldn't know you had sent one till they log back in....i think !!....although they would be notified by email that they had received a pm.

you can see who has received pagers by going to quick links...open pager....online members....pager messages.

Thanks Angie. I'm not very good at finding my way round the site. I just post and read. I don't even understand how to read journals let alone write one. xx

thats easy...and fun. just click on navigation...then journal. everyone who has done a journal will be on there to read....and if you want to start your own there is a tab that says either new journal..start journal or my journal...i think mine says my journal as its already started...yours may say start journal.

have fun x