I know now it's not me being over sensitive and I think I will take the majorities advice and just give her a wide berth from now on and hopefully she will get the message. Initially, I thought she was the best friend I never had, as she is very full on with big hugs every time we met. I took this as genuine, but now realise it is plastic!! She is full on then I don't hear a word from her for weeks.
Time to move on I think