mollie1985
Well-Known Member
Hello all please before anyone comments this post is about a client that had an abortion and I don't want it to turn into a debate about that subject.
Basically a client of mine who is 19 had an abortion few weeks ago she told me at the time she was having one as she just broke down and felt she had nobody to speak to(I have done her and her mums hair for about 7 years) anyway I just said to her it's obviously her decision and I said could she not speak to her mum and she said no way as her mum wouldn't understand so her and her boyfriend both agreed they were not ready, anyway her mum has txt me earlier saying how her daughter has just told her and that only me and one other person knew and that she can't believe I didn't contact her etc I replied saying I'm sorry but I didn't feel it was my place and about client confidentiality etc and she replied "you have done our hair for years we thought of you as a friend, I don't think I would be able to look you in the face ever again"
Guys I'm really upset about this have i done something wrong ? I really don't know what to reply I must admit i broke down when I read her last message as she said some other hurtful things about how iv made her feel at not telling her and basically saying her daughter was going through hell and I never told her?
I really believe I done what was best and that was kept myself out of the situation I just don't really know what to reply I obviously don't want to lose them as clients x
Basically a client of mine who is 19 had an abortion few weeks ago she told me at the time she was having one as she just broke down and felt she had nobody to speak to(I have done her and her mums hair for about 7 years) anyway I just said to her it's obviously her decision and I said could she not speak to her mum and she said no way as her mum wouldn't understand so her and her boyfriend both agreed they were not ready, anyway her mum has txt me earlier saying how her daughter has just told her and that only me and one other person knew and that she can't believe I didn't contact her etc I replied saying I'm sorry but I didn't feel it was my place and about client confidentiality etc and she replied "you have done our hair for years we thought of you as a friend, I don't think I would be able to look you in the face ever again"
Guys I'm really upset about this have i done something wrong ? I really don't know what to reply I must admit i broke down when I read her last message as she said some other hurtful things about how iv made her feel at not telling her and basically saying her daughter was going through hell and I never told her?
I really believe I done what was best and that was kept myself out of the situation I just don't really know what to reply I obviously don't want to lose them as clients x