GracefulH&B
Well-Known Member
I need to ask you guys something. It was my birthday earlier on this week and I was working in the morning of my birthday. My husband works in Africa but he was home 9 days before my birthday. So, I got up on the day of my birthday and my husband came in to the kitchen and said "Happy Birthday" and walked back out. So I thought OK, maybe he's just waiting till the kids are up to give me my cards and pressie (our kids are 3, 4 and 6). I went to work, got home about 2pm ........ nothing. Home about and hour and ........ nothing. I eventually said to my husband "am I not getting a card or anything" thinking he was just winding me up, but he said "no, you were at work and had the car. How was I supposed to get you anything". So, after 11 years of marriage and 3 children, I got nothing, zilch, squat. Gutted to say the least. It's not just that he didn't get me anything, or the fact that I feel the children should be encouraged to "buy" gifts to see that giving is as good as getting. It's the fact that he didn't seem to care that he couldn't be bothered to get me anything. There was no "I'm really sorry, I've not had a chance to get out ......" Nothing. "Not got you anything... get over it" was his attitude. Am I being a "girl" here or would you guys have felt the same. I dropped him off at the airport this evening for him to go back to Africa and he was all lovey dovey and all I could think ... well, it's not repeatable, lol. I appreciate he's giving up a lot, but just one little card. Is that too much to ask?