Mad_4_Massage
Well-Known Member
Hello SalonGeeks!
Im new to the site so please go easy on me!
I got put in a bad situation at work recently, i had a woman booked in for a bikini wax, (she was unsure of what she wanted when booking so i told her i'd book out enough time for an all off so she could decided, she was the last client of the day so i didnt mind doing some overtime) and when she arrived her boyfriend came with her which is fine, it doesnt bother me, i gave them both drinks and invited her to come into the room and get ready. What was strange was her boyfriend went in with her, and when i asked her if she was comfortable with him been in the room she just looked down while her loudly announced he would be staying in the room and that i should get on with the wax as he "doesnt have time to waste with talking".
I bit my tongue and ignored it, however this raised alarm bells, so i excused myself and asked another therapist to wait outside the room with the phone for security, and went in to start the wax. When i asked her if she knew which type of wax she wanted, her boyfriend demanded i take it all off "as pubic hair is disgusting and he didn't like it so it needs to go"
I told him that while i understood his points of view, i needed to hear what she wanted done and asked her once again what she would like, but before she could answer the man snorted and told me "I'm paying, it's my choice so get on with it" and when i went to answer him he interrupted saying "My custom pays your wages. Which means you do what i tell you to do"
By this point i'd had enough of been treated like this and told him to leave the room and wait outside. He refused however i told him i wouldn't do the treatment with him in the room. When he left i asked the girl if she needed help, he seemed rather controlling and thought she might need some help, to which she explained that she was fine, he was just very dominant. I told her it wasn't my business but if she ever needed help i would try to help her. She explained that while he may seem mean, he is very kind to her and treats her right and wants whats best for her and that she was okay.
I did the wax after confirming how she wanted it and she was happy with it, the man was very grumpy as he paid and practically dragged her out the salon.
Sorry for the essay but i was wondering how any of you would have handled the situation? I was just going refuse do the treatment (which i would have if the other therapist was too busy to stand outside) but i wanted to check the girl was alright.
Im new to the site so please go easy on me!
I got put in a bad situation at work recently, i had a woman booked in for a bikini wax, (she was unsure of what she wanted when booking so i told her i'd book out enough time for an all off so she could decided, she was the last client of the day so i didnt mind doing some overtime) and when she arrived her boyfriend came with her which is fine, it doesnt bother me, i gave them both drinks and invited her to come into the room and get ready. What was strange was her boyfriend went in with her, and when i asked her if she was comfortable with him been in the room she just looked down while her loudly announced he would be staying in the room and that i should get on with the wax as he "doesnt have time to waste with talking".
I bit my tongue and ignored it, however this raised alarm bells, so i excused myself and asked another therapist to wait outside the room with the phone for security, and went in to start the wax. When i asked her if she knew which type of wax she wanted, her boyfriend demanded i take it all off "as pubic hair is disgusting and he didn't like it so it needs to go"
I told him that while i understood his points of view, i needed to hear what she wanted done and asked her once again what she would like, but before she could answer the man snorted and told me "I'm paying, it's my choice so get on with it" and when i went to answer him he interrupted saying "My custom pays your wages. Which means you do what i tell you to do"
By this point i'd had enough of been treated like this and told him to leave the room and wait outside. He refused however i told him i wouldn't do the treatment with him in the room. When he left i asked the girl if she needed help, he seemed rather controlling and thought she might need some help, to which she explained that she was fine, he was just very dominant. I told her it wasn't my business but if she ever needed help i would try to help her. She explained that while he may seem mean, he is very kind to her and treats her right and wants whats best for her and that she was okay.
I did the wax after confirming how she wanted it and she was happy with it, the man was very grumpy as he paid and practically dragged her out the salon.
Sorry for the essay but i was wondering how any of you would have handled the situation? I was just going refuse do the treatment (which i would have if the other therapist was too busy to stand outside) but i wanted to check the girl was alright.
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