littlemissm
Well-Known Member
My mum & her husband of 25yrs moved to Spain back in 2007. My mum passed away end of June last yr(2014) , myself & 2 sisters helped arrange the funeral & my mum was cremated & her husband said that every birthday ect he would light a candle that sits in top of the urn he was really cut up about the whole thing & was inconsolable. A few days ago I get a phone call from my mums husband saying he was sending some boxes over with my mums stuff in & then he asked me what I wanted to do with the ashes. This really threw me as we all presumed he was going to keep them, he said if we didn't want them then he will scatter them on the beach. I said no send them back to the UK. After speaking with my older sister I find out that he has met someone else, he met a lady in a bar back I. October only 4 months after my mum passed. I now have a lot of thoughts going through my head & I'm very confused as to what's going on. We are all shocked that the urn is being shipped over to us rather than staying with him in Spain.