Crystal colleen
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Thought I would write this to get your opinions.
My daughter is six and goes to a nice school.She loves other kids and gets on well with them boys and girls she's quite tomboy and loves rough and tough play but also likes girly mum and dads games to.
She is friends with another girl who I know has probes at home.they play together a lot we have had some lil spats between them but nothing that I would be worried about until now.
Billie ( my daughter ) has been very different at home in the last 3 weeks with strops being nasty to us just generally unhappy me and her dad (my fiancé) put I down to just having a moment getting older and so on.
All last week billie was saying she didn't want to go to school I found this a bit strange because she loves school she tried every trick in the book from I don't feel well that I haven't got school today and can I go to school later so I had a chat with her and asked her why she didn't want to go to school she replied because I don't want to so I said don't lie to me you can tell me anything so tell me what is going on and billie replied with it's Morgan she's being nasty.so I asked what was going on she said she keeps telling me she dosnt want to be my friend and I say well don't listen to it and play with someone else but I'm still thinking this isn't right there is more to this than meets the eye........................and there is.
My partner picks bill up from school and she was acting a bit strange she came home came through the door we sent her up to get changed I go up and she is on her bed holding her arm I take a look and she has got a deep cut on her wrist it was nasty really red and bloody.I asked her what it was and she said Morgan had tied a piece of string round her wrist and kept pulling it tighter and tighter and when bill said no stop it it carried on.we sat down and had a chat and it all came spilling out this girl had been punching billie spitting on her swearing at her calling her names the lot I said so why are you friends with her and she replied because she always says sorry and you have always said then when someone says sorry that we have to forgive and forget .....it made my heart melt what a lovely gal I have.I explained that this is unexceptable behaviour from this other girl and it isn't nice and that she should have told me and I could have helped sooner to which she replied I was going to tell you but Morgan said if I did then she would tell her dad that I was bullying her and then she said am I a bully I said no you are not ur a lovely girl and not to listern to what she says and from now on she is to play with the other gals that are lovely to her.my poor lil gal my blood was boiling and this child is very manipulative indeed.
So I ring the school and tell them what has been going on and say I would like to see someone about this they tell me that they will get the head to ring me
back the head dosnt ring me back somebody else does so I explain everything and she says it's very hard with you daughter and Morgan because they are friends I say how is it hard it's simple my daughter is being manipulated and bullied buy a girl that she thought was her friend and I say I don't want them playing together anymore and to keep them apart they say that that could be hard I say no you will do it because if I hear of one more thing that she has done I will be taking her out of the school until it is sorted.I also make them aware that it is there job to look after her in school hours to which I didn't get a reply.now this has been going on for 3 weeks how the hell has no one noticed bearing in mined there 6 years old .
So on the way home on Friday fiancé speakes to stepmother about the behaviour the stepmother apologises and tells the gal you wait till your dad heares this to which she starts screaming and crying begging not to take her home to her dad which was a big frightening to say the least I'm thinking what's going to happen to her when she does go home.then the stepmother then tells us that the gal went home last week and told her mum and dad that a boy had tied a piece of rope around her neck and strangled her until she was unconscious and she banged her head .to which they rang the school and said
that this is what had happened but she didn't have any marks on her or a bump on her head and the school replied with no she wouldn't have because it never happened the boy that was supposed to have done this was in all play time because he didn't feel well.
ohh my god this child is very disturbed and the school wonder why I don't want my gal playing with her anymore I'm going into the school Monday and to talk about all of this that has been going on and to see what the plan of action is.
Can anybody give me any advice on what to do and has anybody been in this situation before and what did you do.xxxxx
Sorry for the long post
My daughter is six and goes to a nice school.She loves other kids and gets on well with them boys and girls she's quite tomboy and loves rough and tough play but also likes girly mum and dads games to.
She is friends with another girl who I know has probes at home.they play together a lot we have had some lil spats between them but nothing that I would be worried about until now.
Billie ( my daughter ) has been very different at home in the last 3 weeks with strops being nasty to us just generally unhappy me and her dad (my fiancé) put I down to just having a moment getting older and so on.
All last week billie was saying she didn't want to go to school I found this a bit strange because she loves school she tried every trick in the book from I don't feel well that I haven't got school today and can I go to school later so I had a chat with her and asked her why she didn't want to go to school she replied because I don't want to so I said don't lie to me you can tell me anything so tell me what is going on and billie replied with it's Morgan she's being nasty.so I asked what was going on she said she keeps telling me she dosnt want to be my friend and I say well don't listen to it and play with someone else but I'm still thinking this isn't right there is more to this than meets the eye........................and there is.
My partner picks bill up from school and she was acting a bit strange she came home came through the door we sent her up to get changed I go up and she is on her bed holding her arm I take a look and she has got a deep cut on her wrist it was nasty really red and bloody.I asked her what it was and she said Morgan had tied a piece of string round her wrist and kept pulling it tighter and tighter and when bill said no stop it it carried on.we sat down and had a chat and it all came spilling out this girl had been punching billie spitting on her swearing at her calling her names the lot I said so why are you friends with her and she replied because she always says sorry and you have always said then when someone says sorry that we have to forgive and forget .....it made my heart melt what a lovely gal I have.I explained that this is unexceptable behaviour from this other girl and it isn't nice and that she should have told me and I could have helped sooner to which she replied I was going to tell you but Morgan said if I did then she would tell her dad that I was bullying her and then she said am I a bully I said no you are not ur a lovely girl and not to listern to what she says and from now on she is to play with the other gals that are lovely to her.my poor lil gal my blood was boiling and this child is very manipulative indeed.
So I ring the school and tell them what has been going on and say I would like to see someone about this they tell me that they will get the head to ring me
back the head dosnt ring me back somebody else does so I explain everything and she says it's very hard with you daughter and Morgan because they are friends I say how is it hard it's simple my daughter is being manipulated and bullied buy a girl that she thought was her friend and I say I don't want them playing together anymore and to keep them apart they say that that could be hard I say no you will do it because if I hear of one more thing that she has done I will be taking her out of the school until it is sorted.I also make them aware that it is there job to look after her in school hours to which I didn't get a reply.now this has been going on for 3 weeks how the hell has no one noticed bearing in mined there 6 years old .
So on the way home on Friday fiancé speakes to stepmother about the behaviour the stepmother apologises and tells the gal you wait till your dad heares this to which she starts screaming and crying begging not to take her home to her dad which was a big frightening to say the least I'm thinking what's going to happen to her when she does go home.then the stepmother then tells us that the gal went home last week and told her mum and dad that a boy had tied a piece of rope around her neck and strangled her until she was unconscious and she banged her head .to which they rang the school and said
that this is what had happened but she didn't have any marks on her or a bump on her head and the school replied with no she wouldn't have because it never happened the boy that was supposed to have done this was in all play time because he didn't feel well.
ohh my god this child is very disturbed and the school wonder why I don't want my gal playing with her anymore I'm going into the school Monday and to talk about all of this that has been going on and to see what the plan of action is.
Can anybody give me any advice on what to do and has anybody been in this situation before and what did you do.xxxxx
Sorry for the long post