I agree with everything Jenny has said above :hug:
High end hot wax does tend to be kinder to the skin and great on short, coarse hair, which makes it perfect for bikini waxing!
There are a few good high end waxes out there, so I think you may need to try a couple and see how you get on, to find the one you can work best with
Mine's Perron Rigot Euroblonde - its changed the way I wax completely and I love it!
HTHs xx