amyvictoria
Well-Known Member
1st January 2012 I met the love of my life,with in months I could see ourselves having a future together kids marriage moving out... The lot! And I mean it , I have never felt this way about someone in my entire life.
Everything was going dandy..
After a while his mum started having a problem with me, for example she would allow me to sleep over and then bitch about it behind my back to him, she would invite me for tea and then bitch about it, which obviously really upset me when he told me gave me a complex tbh.
His family in general are all generally quite selfish and for some reason no matter how much i try still hate me
Anyway As soon as the clocked striked midnight New Year's Eve 2013 everything just went down the pan. He turned into a complete and utter nob.
Putting his friends before me all the time, went out on the piss every single weekend never invited me with him and then when I see him the day after we don't go out or anything. Stay in nursing his hangover. He would tell me he was going on lad nights when there will actually be girls there, he went on a lads weekend and gave me half a days notice after keeping my entire weekend free for him. And then when I got upset about it he told me I was being pathetic and needed to grow up. He told me he cheated on me with 3 girls and then he told me he was in love with his best friends sister,then he wanted me back and told me he made the biggest mistake of his life he lied about the cheating because he thought I could do better than him, sweet talked me back, his sister gave me abuse on Facebook for no reason so I informed her that he told me he told me he cheated on me and that shut her up. it was my 21st birthday party beginning of feb when we were together and I'm still waiting for my present now... I spent £500 on his birthday.
We have broken up and got back together 3 times this year already and i keep going back to him because I love him so much it hurts!!! my best friend got killed in an accident and in the same week he broke up with me again he then went into work drunk got the sack,then lead me on for 4 weeks and then told me he didn't want me he then told me the day after saying he didnt want me saying he wanted me back and I've been back with him for 4 weeks and I'm so insecure, he keeps telling me I'm clingy. But it feels like he's the one making me clingy! I think if your in a relationship with someone you should at least talk to them every day especially if you don't see them on that day 5 or 10 minutes that's all it takes, 1 phone call = happy days. I personally don't see that as being clingy. That's communication in a relationship.
But today I've tried phoning him and all he's been doing is hanging up on me, I phoned him 4 Times around 5 o'clock, and he said I'm busy ill phone you later, and I just said to him please answer your phone ill only be 5 mins, no I'm busy I'm with my mates stop hassling me. And it's like.... If you just bloody talk to me I won't be hassling you!! He was meant to be helping a mate move house tonight and let him down for his mates that he ditches me for all the time. And I'm actually quite upset because it feels like he's calling the shots all the time. Keeps promising he's gonna change and then he doesn't. I asked him to put our relationship back on Facebook and he wouldn't which made me think like... Why wouldn't he want to? And then that night he deleted Facebook.
And then today been ignoring my calls all day. It's just like I'm putting so much into it to make it work and I'm getting so upset and insecure incase I'm being used it's just like as soon as his mates are there I'm dropped straight away.
Sorry everyone I just need to vent I've never loved someone so much but It's taken me alot to forgive him for everything and it just feels like its been chucked in my face :/ xxx
Everything was going dandy..
After a while his mum started having a problem with me, for example she would allow me to sleep over and then bitch about it behind my back to him, she would invite me for tea and then bitch about it, which obviously really upset me when he told me gave me a complex tbh.
His family in general are all generally quite selfish and for some reason no matter how much i try still hate me
Anyway As soon as the clocked striked midnight New Year's Eve 2013 everything just went down the pan. He turned into a complete and utter nob.
Putting his friends before me all the time, went out on the piss every single weekend never invited me with him and then when I see him the day after we don't go out or anything. Stay in nursing his hangover. He would tell me he was going on lad nights when there will actually be girls there, he went on a lads weekend and gave me half a days notice after keeping my entire weekend free for him. And then when I got upset about it he told me I was being pathetic and needed to grow up. He told me he cheated on me with 3 girls and then he told me he was in love with his best friends sister,then he wanted me back and told me he made the biggest mistake of his life he lied about the cheating because he thought I could do better than him, sweet talked me back, his sister gave me abuse on Facebook for no reason so I informed her that he told me he told me he cheated on me and that shut her up. it was my 21st birthday party beginning of feb when we were together and I'm still waiting for my present now... I spent £500 on his birthday.
We have broken up and got back together 3 times this year already and i keep going back to him because I love him so much it hurts!!! my best friend got killed in an accident and in the same week he broke up with me again he then went into work drunk got the sack,then lead me on for 4 weeks and then told me he didn't want me he then told me the day after saying he didnt want me saying he wanted me back and I've been back with him for 4 weeks and I'm so insecure, he keeps telling me I'm clingy. But it feels like he's the one making me clingy! I think if your in a relationship with someone you should at least talk to them every day especially if you don't see them on that day 5 or 10 minutes that's all it takes, 1 phone call = happy days. I personally don't see that as being clingy. That's communication in a relationship.
But today I've tried phoning him and all he's been doing is hanging up on me, I phoned him 4 Times around 5 o'clock, and he said I'm busy ill phone you later, and I just said to him please answer your phone ill only be 5 mins, no I'm busy I'm with my mates stop hassling me. And it's like.... If you just bloody talk to me I won't be hassling you!! He was meant to be helping a mate move house tonight and let him down for his mates that he ditches me for all the time. And I'm actually quite upset because it feels like he's calling the shots all the time. Keeps promising he's gonna change and then he doesn't. I asked him to put our relationship back on Facebook and he wouldn't which made me think like... Why wouldn't he want to? And then that night he deleted Facebook.
And then today been ignoring my calls all day. It's just like I'm putting so much into it to make it work and I'm getting so upset and insecure incase I'm being used it's just like as soon as his mates are there I'm dropped straight away.
Sorry everyone I just need to vent I've never loved someone so much but It's taken me alot to forgive him for everything and it just feels like its been chucked in my face :/ xxx