tempertature
room should be warm but not over-bearing, when you relax your body temperature drops so the room should be cosy.
hands should be warm - a good tip is to have your oil warm so that helps to warm the hands up and the oil feels so nice when applied warm.
cocooned
a client should be covered up with large generous towels, only the area exposed should be exposed! I like to have my arms and chest covered all the time too.
if its a cold day I place a warmed wheatbag under the feet.
pressure
a good therapist should discuss what the treatment pressure should be, simply asking what the client wants out of the treatment is good practise.
I generally ask "would you like light, medium or firm pressure". If the client doesn't know I offer medium pressure and ask them to let me know if they want me to ease off or apply more pressure.
asking the client once or twice "is this pressure OK for you" but not asking every 5 minutes as that is irritating.
customising
everyone has a picture of what they want from a treatment (see above). If a client wants their back and shoulders doing but is not bothered about their arms, chest and tummy, then tailor-making a treatment to include what the client wants is quite frankly what all therapists should do. Whats the point in having a full body massage if you only want certain areas doing?
I ask a client to tell me what they want from their treatment that day.
Then I listen to what they want and decide on the treatment plan then.
A lot of my clients have an hour's back massage, or an hour for back and back of legs.
I have one client she has an hour on her neck and shoulders, she sits bolt upright and I only have access to those areas.
Another client has an hour just on her feet and lower legs.
talking
I hate someone talking incessantly to me throughout a relaxing treatment, so I don't do it to my clients.
If its their first time with me, I tell them that its their treatment, and they should get out of it what they want, and it doesn't involve keeping me entertained, so if they want to zone out and relax they will get more out of their treatment. I offer them the chance to talk if they wish, but watch for their cues, and (hopefully) know when to fade out and let them relax.
Saying that, some clients love to talk! They feel uncomfortable with silence so for them it would not be an enjoyable experience for them.
I have one client comes every 2 weeks for a treatment, she likes to "catch up" with what I am doing, and then she likes to fall asleep for the rest of the treatment. I usually fade out after 5-10 minutes so she can sink into the treatment.
informing the client
If a client is having their first treatment, then information is everything! If you tell the client a) what the treatment is going to entail b) offer them an opinion on what they want from it c) tell them what to do next, ie how much clothing to remove and where to lie/sit d) at the end of the treatment, tell them what you are going to do and what they need to do, ie please stay where you are and enjoy the peace and quiet for a few minutes and only get up off the couch when you are ready, I will be back for you in about 5 minutes but I will knock before I enter.
Telling the client exactly what to do helps them to relax, they don't have to guess what to do
noise
this is a big no-no. Gentle music is great, but always check that your client wants music. I personally don't like dolphin music, it makes me uncomfortable.
all other noise should be kept to a minimum, so putting your phone on silent, putting your answerphone on silent, and having a sign in reception asking people waiting to keep noise to a minumum helps.
i go for treatments to a local salon and you can hear everything, the receptionist chatting nosily, the therapist talking in the next room and I find it off-putting, I therefore don't book relaxing treatments there. Once her washing machine went into spin cycle throughout a facial, that was the last facial I booked there.
smells
I used to burn essential oils in an oil burner, but some clients didn't like the smells. I don't like the strong lingering smell of incense, and I hate cheap scented candles.
If a client books a massage they get plain grapeseed or almond oil.
If they book an aromatherapy massage, they get essential oils.
oil residue
if you ask your client on their first treatment if they would prefer the oil to be removed after the treatment, then you can do this, but to be honest, I make sure that I use just the right amount so that they can get dressed straight away. I do sometimes use steamed mitts to remove the oil, but thats because its been requested. aromatherapy oils NEED to be left on for the treatment anyway.
so thats my take on a massage. look forward to reading your comments.