Deal Breakers...

[Blue Rose]

Ok guys & gals. We've had who we'd like to snog & who we wouldn't plus what we find attractive in someone.

Now, what is/was the deal breaker for you?

I like a guy to be grammatically correct & I don't like really heavy accents, in fact I've not gone out with blokes cos I didn't like the way they talked.

Confidence is good but arrogance is a big no-no
Dodgy personal hygiene is also a big turn-off

I'm sure there are loads more but can't think of any atm.

Over to yous......

 

[laura16]

I have a big issue with teeth, if a person has bad teeth or just wonkey teeth then its a nono........... is that odd xx

 

[Mich77]

I could reel off a load of deal breakers, but the list would be too long!! lol

Bad teeth, smelly breath and bad personal hygiene in general are a definate no-no!
Must have nice hands - can't stand badly bitten nails!
And I don't like tattoos - maybe a small one somewhere discreet, but definately not someone who is covered in them or has them out for all to see!

Just a few for now!! lol

 

[Violet Star]

Deal breakers for me are -

Bad teeth
Talking about rudies all the time and relating everything to rude things
Someone who is too full on and clingey with me i like to be kept on my toes
Dress sense if they dont dress nice or have any sense of style
If someone isnt clean or keep their bedroom untidy and dirty

Ive actually dumped people for those reasons lol

 

[angelina221]

White socks with black shoes- ewwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[geeg]

Horrible table manners
Bad breath and PH
Foul mouth
If they embarrass me in any way in public
If I would be ashamed for my parents to meet him.

 

[deanosnana]

Lying, cheating... Definite no-no's!

 

[tog]

No-one who is shorter than me.
Racist guys - I had a horrible shock with one guy I had dated a couple of times and then made remarks which made him seem like a white supremacist . . he was instantly binned.
My friend once told me she would never go out with any guy who wore tan, woven leather shoes. Tee hee!

 

[Beauty2yourdoor]

I hate..
Men that swear all the time,
Men who are too vain,
Men that take drugs,
Men that Lie,
Men who are married and lie,
Men who are selfish
and I really can't stand cheap men...

Bit of a rant there, believe it or not I a with someone... lolxx

 

[Florriedee]

Hiya - Bad grammer and a strong london/essex/brum accent are a real no for me. I can cope with a small amount of accent (otherwise I may end up a lonely old spinster) and I don't mind pretty much any other accent but those are ghastly! He must also pronounce his t's and be able to use correct grammer, punctuation and and be able to spell in a letter/email/text.

As I've said before he has to have a proper career and prospects. I don't want someone who works for Tesco or can't hold down a job and then moans about it. I got rid of one for quitting his (admittedly rubbish) job before getting a new job and then whinging about not finding another one. My dad finally helped him get a really good job with prospects but he messed it up despite numerous warnings so I had enough and got rid.

I also won't tolerate not being important enough to someone. My chap before last used to be a chef and would regularly stand me up to go into work and I put up with it for a while then one day I was on my way to meet him and he rang and said he had to go to work so I just said 'OK I'm sorry I can't cope with this it's over' and put the phone down. I haven't spoken to him since (although I have had many many text and voicemails). My last chap forgot St Valentine's day - didn't mention it, didn't ring me, didn't acknowledge it at all so I dumped him too. It's not like it is an easy thing to forget! It's plasted all over windows of stores from Jan 1! We had been seeing each other for about 6 weeks by this stage and even if you don't do anything for ityou do at least acknowledge it. especially that early on in a relationship!

I will admit I am extremely intolerant though - in case that didn't come accross. I am the ultimate high maintainence girl-friend but frankly why should I put up with being treated badly? I am better than that and I do not have low self-esteem, nor will I get low self-esteem from a man!

Rant over!
Lol Lx

 

[Ruth Mills]

For me, smoking and drugs are generally no-nos. Although back in 2001; I was friends with someone who smoked that I would have happily dated (and possibly even married), except she was already in a relationship, and ended up getting married (not to me) the following year. So we just stayed friends, as I did not think it right to spoil their happiness by saying how I felt about her. But then a year after that, I met Sonia
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[Blue Rose]

Another thing that bugs the hell out of me is indecisiveness (sp?)

Am now trying to arrange a 1st date with someone & I ask him where & when. His reply 'don't know, you say somewhere'. How difficult is it to decide on somewhere for lunch????

Hmm, he may have just blown it already, lol