Violet Star
Well-Known Member
Hi geeks,This is a bit of a personal problem, and need some advice.
I was with my partner 4-5 years and we split late last year since then we have been seeing eachother every week or so and speak nearly everyday and still very close. We still love eachother.
But he is a big let down when he plans to see me he mostly lets me down to see his friends or play football, his in his mid 20's and he says he doesnt want a relationship beacause she just want to be around his mates and be free to do what he wants.
He is big commit phobe and im getting quite hurt knowing i cant be with him and i always have the thought in my mind maybe he will meet someone else and just drop me like a ton of bricks?
I really want to get over this man but i find it so hard and ive tried hard over these last few months, i recently had a row with him and told him not to contact me again or come round... but ive said this before and he always pulls me back and comes round or tries to talk to me and he wont let me move on..
If anyone has any advice would be gratful.xx
I was with my partner 4-5 years and we split late last year since then we have been seeing eachother every week or so and speak nearly everyday and still very close. We still love eachother.
But he is a big let down when he plans to see me he mostly lets me down to see his friends or play football, his in his mid 20's and he says he doesnt want a relationship beacause she just want to be around his mates and be free to do what he wants.
He is big commit phobe and im getting quite hurt knowing i cant be with him and i always have the thought in my mind maybe he will meet someone else and just drop me like a ton of bricks?
I really want to get over this man but i find it so hard and ive tried hard over these last few months, i recently had a row with him and told him not to contact me again or come round... but ive said this before and he always pulls me back and comes round or tries to talk to me and he wont let me move on..
If anyone has any advice would be gratful.xx