sunshineinme
Well-Known Member
Hiya- I don't have kids but I thought I will tell my point
I love my lazy mornings, I love my walks, gym and a glass of wine. I like quiet evenings and spontaneous pub crawls with my hubby.
I like my occasional expensive little things, the fact that I am responsible for my hubby and myself only. No stress, no need to share my time, money or attention with anyone else but him. I love holidays, and weekends away and we do lots of them.
Kids would take away all I love, like and want. It's not my time and not my cup of tea.
I am writing this so that you see things from a different perspective.
There are plenty of beautiful women here who know how to love and how wonderful being a mother is. And I so admire them!!!! I haven't been brought up this way. I don't know other way. My mum loves me lots but she never been a full time mum- by full time I mean someone who was ready to have kids, spend time with them willing to bring them up herself.
She now admits that she had no clue how to be a mum- maybe it wasn't her time?
My point is- kids are not must have but choice. Choose wisely xxx
I love my lazy mornings, I love my walks, gym and a glass of wine. I like quiet evenings and spontaneous pub crawls with my hubby.
I like my occasional expensive little things, the fact that I am responsible for my hubby and myself only. No stress, no need to share my time, money or attention with anyone else but him. I love holidays, and weekends away and we do lots of them.
Kids would take away all I love, like and want. It's not my time and not my cup of tea.
I am writing this so that you see things from a different perspective.
There are plenty of beautiful women here who know how to love and how wonderful being a mother is. And I so admire them!!!! I haven't been brought up this way. I don't know other way. My mum loves me lots but she never been a full time mum- by full time I mean someone who was ready to have kids, spend time with them willing to bring them up herself.
She now admits that she had no clue how to be a mum- maybe it wasn't her time?
My point is- kids are not must have but choice. Choose wisely xxx