Omg that's shocking! You should never have to feel the uncomfortable at work xxxThe salon near me has scantily clad women in thongs on their website. It's very clear the sort of massage you'll get.
When someone tries to control a situation like that, I felt he was taking it out of our hands. He said he'd been working out a lot - he clearly hadn't. When I asked where as my husband is a personal trainer, he stammered over the answer.
The first thing I say to clients is that we offer aromatherapy massage but he slipped through the net. I have lots of male clients and some are older and say slightly inappropriate things, usually from embarrassment but they're total gents, but he made me feel so uncomfortable I was itching to either hit him or leg it out of the room. I knew I had to say something to stop him returning.
We have to stay safe and it can often take us half a lifetime to trust our gut instinct. It's there for a reason x