I've had the most horrid week geeks
I've been with my fells from school, almost 6 years and we have a 3 year old daughter.
We got engaged last month but have had a lot of rocky patches. Being young he adjusted to settling down and having a family but still had the urges to go get drunk and not come home for days, turning his phone off the whole time.
He did this again last week and the week since has been filled with arguments.
We said some horrible things, he packed everything he owns and has left 2 days ago.
I'm gutted, obviously. I was planning a wedding and a second baby next year.
I'm getting on with things. I haven't given myself time to think or cry...I don't want to.
We split up when my baby was 7 months for a year and I spent the whole time looking (in hindsight) quite twisted and desperate to get him back. I'm heart broken, but maybe this is the right thing now?
I'm young, 22, and I know I have. Long time to meet someone else but I just don't know how, I can't see it happening. Finding some one my age-ish who is willing to accept me, and a 3 year old and the baggage that comes with my now ex and co parenting?
I work non stop, the rest of the time I'm with my daughter, so finding time to have a normal relationship where I can go out, have some fun, go for dinnernetc just isn't plausible.
Plus the fact I've only ever been with my ex! So im terrified of starting over, and just can't imagine feeling that way for anyone else. I hate him, but I love him, and the thought of him being with someone else breaks my heart.
Sorry for my rant, any tips on a break up? Especially with kids involved? I can't see how I can be really happy again
Thanks xx
I've been with my fells from school, almost 6 years and we have a 3 year old daughter.
We got engaged last month but have had a lot of rocky patches. Being young he adjusted to settling down and having a family but still had the urges to go get drunk and not come home for days, turning his phone off the whole time.
He did this again last week and the week since has been filled with arguments.
We said some horrible things, he packed everything he owns and has left 2 days ago.
I'm gutted, obviously. I was planning a wedding and a second baby next year.
I'm getting on with things. I haven't given myself time to think or cry...I don't want to.
We split up when my baby was 7 months for a year and I spent the whole time looking (in hindsight) quite twisted and desperate to get him back. I'm heart broken, but maybe this is the right thing now?
I'm young, 22, and I know I have. Long time to meet someone else but I just don't know how, I can't see it happening. Finding some one my age-ish who is willing to accept me, and a 3 year old and the baggage that comes with my now ex and co parenting?
I work non stop, the rest of the time I'm with my daughter, so finding time to have a normal relationship where I can go out, have some fun, go for dinnernetc just isn't plausible.
Plus the fact I've only ever been with my ex! So im terrified of starting over, and just can't imagine feeling that way for anyone else. I hate him, but I love him, and the thought of him being with someone else breaks my heart.
Sorry for my rant, any tips on a break up? Especially with kids involved? I can't see how I can be really happy again
Thanks xx