Jesus Christ on a bike, have I slipped into a parralel dimension???? This man is in his 30's and hitting on his teenage clients, asking inappropriate questions about them, touching them in an "overly friendly" way. He needs to maybe stick to ladies who he's not old enough to be a father to. If this sort of behaviour was going on in the workplace everyone would be screaming "sexual harrassment" but because he's her instructor its ok? Get real people. And as for the comments about "well she's a lingerie model so men are bound to want to look at her body, what does she expect in that sort of work" etc etc you all make me want to scream, have we gone back to the 1950's without me noticing? Since when was overt and uninvited sexual behaviour excused by the fact that a girl dresses a certain way or does a certain job. Maybe we should suggest she wear a burkha to the gym to make sure she doesnt come across as a tart who's asking for it????
It's all our jobs to protect children and make sure they are safe from anyone who may wish to take advantage of their naivety, it's a crap excuse to say that its not someone's place, leave it to the mother etc. I'm not condemning this man to a guilty sentence without knowing the facts, perhaps the girl has got more involvement than she's letting on, but do we ignore it in case thats the case? No!! The right thing to do is to report the matter to his employers and let them investigate. They can get his side of the story and make an informed judgement, and most importantly it makes them aware of the potential for a situation like this so they can make sure the instructor knows what sort of behaviour is and isnt acceptable with clients. If this matter is left it could well end up with a girl being taken advantage of, both physically and emotionally, which could really mess up the rest of her life, all because no one wanted to get involved or assumed that she might be asking for it. The whole principle of people not involving themselves in situations when they see something wrong happening makes me sick quite frankly. Just because the girl isnt the OP's daughter doesnt mean she hasnt got a valid concern about the conduct of this man, she's perfectly entitled to complain to his employer.