mimmimus
Well-Known Member
hi girls
need some advice!!
ive been in a relationship for 4 years with someone who's career has been very volatile. Fistly he kept leaving jobs/changing jobs all the time and when i said it has to stop or else i cant take it he then put together his own business. He has now done that for a year but the money he makes is "survival" money. he gets really low and is currently on anti depressants. I am in my early 30ies and I want a family some day... I am a popular girl (get attention from the opposite sex etc) and have many friends and Im a very positive and optimistic person. My partner has isolated himself from the rest of the world, has no friends and is quite needy of me. I feel his moods are dragging me down sometimes very much tbh but he loves me more than anyone has ever loved me and he gives me tons of attention and I know he is really trying to make things work. I feel i am running out of time tho and i dont know whether to stay and wait for things to improve (i do love him but i find the relationship very challenging) or to move on and find someone more stable and in control of their lives? I am no gold digger i just want a "normal" life. I dont know how id find the strength to leave but i guess i am looking for some advice/view points etc, what would you do??
need some advice!!
ive been in a relationship for 4 years with someone who's career has been very volatile. Fistly he kept leaving jobs/changing jobs all the time and when i said it has to stop or else i cant take it he then put together his own business. He has now done that for a year but the money he makes is "survival" money. he gets really low and is currently on anti depressants. I am in my early 30ies and I want a family some day... I am a popular girl (get attention from the opposite sex etc) and have many friends and Im a very positive and optimistic person. My partner has isolated himself from the rest of the world, has no friends and is quite needy of me. I feel his moods are dragging me down sometimes very much tbh but he loves me more than anyone has ever loved me and he gives me tons of attention and I know he is really trying to make things work. I feel i am running out of time tho and i dont know whether to stay and wait for things to improve (i do love him but i find the relationship very challenging) or to move on and find someone more stable and in control of their lives? I am no gold digger i just want a "normal" life. I dont know how id find the strength to leave but i guess i am looking for some advice/view points etc, what would you do??