Hun sending you a massive hug! So sorry to hear your news......... Try to live life to the full in time, there isn't a time limit on this, grief is an individual path, maybe you could write down special things that you did with your precious Mum, and teach your little ones about her everyday.
Your Mum will be looking down on you and sending you all her blessings sweetheart, the pain will ease in time, but you will never forget..........xxxxx
oh hun I feel your pain! I lost my mum 17 years ago I had a 20 month old baby and it's a comfort to know that she saw him! I can honestly say time is a healer as corny as it sounds it's true! ! hang on to your memories no one can take them away she will live in your heart always be the mum to your kids that she was to you! big hugs babe xxx
I feel awful for you, I'm so sorry. I lost my mum 16 years ago on 4th Jan to cancer so know a little of how you'll be feeling. There's no good time of year but it does take the sparkle out of this time of year. Please ask for help when you need it and don't try to struggle on. Time does make things easier but at this early stage it is simply numbing. Take the time and path you need to help you heal. Thankfully you have your babies to help you through this-children don't know the bad in life and hopefully they will still make you smile when times are hard. Best wishes. PGx
Sending huge hugs and love your way, hug your babies tighter and everynight tell them a nanna story, keep her memory within them alive.
Make a special nanna photo album with as many pics as you can find ( ask family for more) to help you with your stories and for her grandsons to see.
Grief has many sides, hurt, anger, frustration, emotion and more so let these feelings come, don't fight them and cry when you need to, don't hold it all in.
And please make sure you ask for help, losing a loved one especially after only 4 days of knowing that an illness is terminal is going to be hard, no one had time to process that information so sweetness remember we are here to help, especially the lovely geeks who have gone through similar.