Transvestite. Would you?

[scutster]

ok so girlfriend seen painted toenails through a hole in sock i dodnt realise was there and so started a discussion i wasnt planning on..... needless to say im now single and just curious with all u folks here would u date an occaional tranny and not just so you could practice on haha....

 

[Ruth Mills]

Sonia (who I've now been married to for the last 4 and a bit years) did - when I met her for the first time, I was in body paint (as a yellow and red devil), and we met at a friends house in Birmingham (the friends in question being in a lesbian relationship); there was another friend there who was bi (as is Sonia too, although she has a special liking for people who are trans).

So yes, it's possible. Although to increase your chances, you may be well worth checking out the local bi community; people who are bi will be generally more likely to be attracted to trans people, and should also be more accepting too (in my experience there are a lot more "out" trans people in the bi community than in society as a whole)...

A fair few people on here do practice on their (usually male) partners though when they need to, with things like nail extensions, manicures, pedicures, facials, waxing and whatnot - and why not when you've got a captive audience?

 

[kennedia]

Wow, that's a way tricky question for this early in the morning. I haven't even had my second cup of coffee yet.

Well I'm gonna say that I might. I wouldn't definitely not. I think tbh it would depend on the person as a whole, but the big thing for me would be whether they were upfront about it from the start or whether I 'found out' and if so, how far into the relationship.

Then it would be a trust and honesty in the relationship issue, rather than a trans issue.

 

[Ruth Mills]

the big thing for me would be whether they were upfront about it from the start or whether I 'found out' and if so, how far into the relationship.

Then it would be a trust and honesty in the relationship issue, rather than a trans issue.

For the record, I was upfront about it; I told Sonia on the night we met back in August 2003. The cool thing was that it wasn't a problem though - in her case it was a bonus

 

[catsaremad]

I agree with Jmel, as long as it was clear from the start I can not see the issue.

I hope that you like Ruth can find a wonderfully supportive partner.

Oh and try Minx its great lol

 

[Ruth Mills]

Oh and try Minx its great lol

Yes - Minx rocks!!! Especially Sue's everlasting Gold Lightning Minx for toes...

 

[kennedia]

For the record, I was upfront about it; I told Sonia on the night we met back in August 2003. The cool thing was that it wasn't a problem though - in her case it was a bonus

Now that's a result and a half eh Ruth?!!!

Joy xx

 

[Ruth Mills]

Now that's a result and a half eh Ruth?!!!

Joy xx

Too right! Although - since about October 1994 (when I was in my 3rd year at uni), I figured that I needed to meet someone who was happy about me being trans; it took until 2003 to find Sonia though... but well worth the wait!

 

[wowbb]

To be honest with you (and I might sound weird) but isnt that just a personal preference of that person so it shouldnt make any difference as to who the person is or the relationship?
Some people like to wear latex or black leather, some like pink and some like to dress up, in reality it shouldnt make a difference if its a man or a woman? Especially if you look at clothes, make up, hair, nails, everything is targeted at women, no wonder some men want to try that.

I think if you know you have a tendency for that and you broach the subject with your partner once you know the relationship is something that would work out then there shouldnt be a problem and the same if its an existing relationship and the man finds out that he has a liking for those things, surely it should be possible to talk about those things to find out how both feel, if they can accept it or what they can do to deal with it?

 

[Kim Lawless]

NO WAY! My clothes are my clothes.....get your own. xxx

 

[collin]

NO WAY! My clothes are my clothes.....get your own. xxx

Im quite sure Kim he wasn't after sneaking about in the dark in your back garden at 2.30 in the morning nicking your bloomers off the rotary clothes line

I wager and suspect he has all the kit he needs of his very own ...and good for him for doing his own thong eek:forgive the pun here) and being open about things.

Whilst its not my bag I can kind of understand the attraction as us guy's really don't get much to dress up about...just look at a clothing catalogue that drops through your door...6000 pages for women and ...well 3 for us poor blokes and what the heck...were only on this earth once ...so do whatever it is that pops your cherry...go do it I say

Respect to the guy:hug: :hug:

 

[Bagpuss]

NO WAY! My clothes are my clothes.....get your own. xxx

:lol::lol: Its not my thing either...I don't see how you can be a masculine man in a frock and sling backs....but hey...i wear jeans and trainers most days so what does that make me...each to their own. x

 

[Shutty]

I don't see how you can be a masculine man in a frock and sling backs....

But wearing a dress and heels is about enjoying your feminine side...

 

[An*Gel]

I'd say a lot of blokes would like to dress up a little bit but they're too scared of what people would think

 

[catsaremad]

NO WAY! My clothes are my clothes.....get your own. xxx

. Lol kim this made me laugh and im sorry if you wanted to borrow my clothes you would have to be a very small man with very small feet x
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[VHunter]

I will be honest, I like my men 'manly' and I don't go for bare chests or baby faces (my type is tom selleck from magnum PI) or 'metro-sexuals'.
If he takes as long in the bathroom to get ready to go out, as I do..... we're going to have problems LOL (I don't much like sharing up my bathroom-time hahahahaha)
I like them a bit rough around the edges.
I like them older than I am by about 5yrs, and up until my hubby, they all were. He had to work VERY VERY hard to change my mind on that, and he's 4yrs younger than I am.
I wouldn't date french people (I am in Quebec) because I didn't want to get all tied up with political-language battles in my personal life and/or with his family (Partie Quebecois are against english, and my girlfriend has that problem with her husband's family who flat out refuse to speak a single word of english to her).
I wouldn't date a Catholic or Protestant or any sort of person who goes to church regularly because I'm Pagan and do not believe in God, and didn't want my children told "yes there is a god".

BUT that's a personal taste thing.

I am sure if you're open about it, you'll find women that are quite accepting of that.

It's like some people won't date smokers and some don't mind it overmuch.
Some people will only date those that are of their race or their religion etc & so on.
It's not about Trans or not. It's about personal tastes, mutual interests and beliefs.

You will find one. More likely faster if you're open about it, as opposed to closed-mouthed. You don't want to invest time in a relationship with someone to find out they're opposed to it.

Seek out environments (whatever type of environment that is) with open minded people OR just be honest about it in every day life. People might surprise you with their acceptance.

Best of luck finding "the one"
:hug:

 

[collin]

. Lol kim this made me laugh and im sorry if you wanted to borrow my clothes you would have to be a very small man with very small feet x
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HMPH...so are you saying then that my size 12's wouldn't fit into your size 3's then....and at a guess im a size 42 erm B and probably a bit hairier than thee ...are we a match :lol:

Well I guess if it were the other way round you could always come live in my size 12's....bit like the little old lady who lived in a shoe....but in this case your not so old LOL :lol::lol::lol:

 

[steve@nouvatan]

I'd say a lot of blokes would like to dress up a little bit but they're too scared of what people would think

i am quite fond of my man ****s apparently they are a side effect of drinking guinness by the gallon in my 30s !! but i wouldnt wear a bra
i did once wake up in a female friends trousers but thats it.
me in a dress well, have you seen the hippos in fantasia

 

[angelina221]

If you genuinely loved someone then it shouldn't matter.
She obviously wasn't the 'right' one, otherwise she wouldn't have been so narrow minded and dumped you just because you like to wear a frock!
I think if my husband turned round to me and told me he liked dressing up in womens clothes then i would be a bit miffed. I would be miffed because he hadn't been honest with me but it wouldn't make me suddenly fall out of love with him. I wouldn't dump him because he wore a frock and if i were to dump him it would be solely about the trust issue. I have been with him for 20 years though so the trust issue would be huge.
I think when you first start dating someone then it's not one of the first things you discuss. 'By the way i like to dress in womens clothes'. I think it then gets harder to tell someone and so it becomes your secret, so i really don't know when the best time to 'confess' would be but, i do think if someone mentioned it on a first date then that would kinda freak me out!

 

[catsaremad]

Colin i would fit into your size 12 four times over ! Iam an elf !!!!!
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