I really messed up here and feel so stupid. So I had this client who came for a massage as she wanted relief from back pain and some relaxation. So she had the massage and all was well (I thought) anyway, she added me on Facebook (first mess up), shouldn't have added a client to my personal page! Then she messaged a week later to say the pain was worse and had kept her awake. At this point I told her I was not medically qualified to diagnose and she should see her doctor, maybe they could refer her for some physio or something. I also said until she had a diagnosis I didn't think a massage would be appropriate until she knew what was causing it. She was quite insistent that she wanted a treatment so I offered her some reiki as its non invasive. Anyway she had that. At a certain point she was really upset saying how the pain was unbearable etc, so I agreed to go for a coffee with her to cheer her up, be sympathetic (another mess up)!!
Since then she has not stopped messaging me, every time I look at my phone there're between 4-7 messages, random stuff like pictures of her family, updates on her pain, pictures of clothes she likes etc. She says she's so glad she can talk to me and that its great we're such good friends now. She keeps asking me to meet to 'cheer her up', she keeps tagging me on Facebook, I have managed to avoid meeting by saying I'm really busy, she has booked in for another appointment for reiki in a months time.
I genuinely feel sorry for her and want to help but to be honest I don't want to be socialising with her, it's too much, I know I made a huge mistake by having her on Facebook and going for a coffee, this is definitely a lesson learned for the future!!
The question is how the hell can I back track and cool her off? At first I was responding to her messages but now I respond just once or twice a day, after all she's a client so I can't ignore her completely. What an idiot I am!
I vow to NEVER have another client on Facebook!
Since then she has not stopped messaging me, every time I look at my phone there're between 4-7 messages, random stuff like pictures of her family, updates on her pain, pictures of clothes she likes etc. She says she's so glad she can talk to me and that its great we're such good friends now. She keeps asking me to meet to 'cheer her up', she keeps tagging me on Facebook, I have managed to avoid meeting by saying I'm really busy, she has booked in for another appointment for reiki in a months time.
I genuinely feel sorry for her and want to help but to be honest I don't want to be socialising with her, it's too much, I know I made a huge mistake by having her on Facebook and going for a coffee, this is definitely a lesson learned for the future!!
The question is how the hell can I back track and cool her off? At first I was responding to her messages but now I respond just once or twice a day, after all she's a client so I can't ignore her completely. What an idiot I am!
I vow to NEVER have another client on Facebook!