What in the heck just happened?

[squidgernetball]

My husband usually says trying to remember the premier league teams in order is enough to 'calm things down', and a lot of men can reverse things if they are getting feelings (sensitively written) but it sounds like this guy made no effort to calm things down - he perhaps mentally worked on his happy ending. I don't do male or female intimate waxing, but do feel angry on behalf of the 99% who behave beautifully. I wouldn't touch him with a bargepole, let alone a gloved hand and spatula. Well done for your professionalism x

 

[FlawlessBeauty]

I would have been horrified and I would have expected him to be mortified about the erection, let alone carrying on to a climax.

If he comes back I would tell him that you are not comfortable treating him anymore.

Sorry that happened to you xx

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[pinkthistle]

When I did my college training we never did men....and I've stuck to that other than the odd eyebrow tidy....I would love to know if legally you can advertise as a ladies only salon? Only because I've seen female clients reactions if they hear a male voice in reception and they're in a state of mid wax lol

Maybe I'm old fashioned or a prude but stories like this horrify me and I don't want me or my girls put in that position so to speak.

 

[Lyddy]

When I did my college training we never did men....and I've stuck to that other than the odd eyebrow tidy....I would love to know if legally you can advertise as a ladies only salon? Only because I've seen female clients reactions if they hear a male voice in reception and they're in a state of mid wax lol

Maybe I'm old fashioned or a prude but stories like this horrify me and I don't want me or my girls put in that position so to speak.

They advertise lady only gyms so I think a lady only salon would be ok

Sorry to OP this happened to you

 

[NailsXpress]

Are there a y men on here that get this area waxed? Is it something difficult to control? I only do eyebrow waxing at the moment. I'm going to do a course soon but only basic legs, underarm and bikini. I don't want to do intimate waxing. Just wondered from a mans point if view if it is difficult to control.

 

[skingeek78]

I feel for you!! I wouldn't be giving him another chance am afraid, I am inclined to agree with others who have suggested he might be there for this reason, whatever the reason I wouldn't risk it. I could understand it to some extent during cleansing??? But hmmm I would suggest to him to seek a male waxer from now on to save embarrassment x

 

[waxingmodel]

Are there a y men on here that get this area waxed? Is it something difficult to control? I only do eyebrow waxing at the moment. I'm going to do a course soon but only basic legs, underarm and bikini. I don't want to do intimate waxing. Just wondered from a mans point if view if it is difficult to control.

I personally find it helpful to chat during the procedure, and if I run out of idle chat then trying to solve a mathematical equation (I'm a bit of a maths geek) does the trick. Actually I normally experience retraction – think turtle head going back in shell! Just wish I could control that!

 

[kirstys beauty]

think turtle head going back in shell! Just wish i could control that!

lol

 

[Kim Lawless]

Look guys! Nobody likes a laugh more than me and I specialise in male intimate waxing but what happened to the OP is totally unacceptable. They are in to get waxed and if he/they think that's ok and you'll just leave the room whilst they sort themselves out, you'll be attracting the wrong kind of clients. Next time he could grab you as it happens and then the next time worse!

I would suggest that if this happens to any of you, stop the waxing, tell them to get dressed and be very cold towards them when they pay you.

Once they've left the building, text this:- Your behaviour today was totally unacceptable and I won't be waxing you again.

Can you imagine if you got raped by a client and he stands up in court and says 'Well she never minded when I ejaculated so I misread the signs'.

Wake up people!!!!!

 

[Dani04]

OMFG

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[jmd1980]

I'm a guy and I wouldn't treat him again. Trust me when I say I have seen and heard just about everything over the years, but have thankfully never had a client ejaculate.

As I see it one of two things has happened here. Either he is getting off on it, in which case what he needs to look for is a prostitute and not a waxer - it's not as if prostitutes are difficult to find, something I point out to clients asking for happy endings. He should probably also see a sexual psychotherapist.

OR perhaps it was genuinely involuntary, maybe he has a premature ejaculation problem. That's all well and good but he really should spare everyone's blushes and buy some veet rather than inflicting this situation on a therapist.

Either way I definitely wouldn't treat agai n, I think it would seem like you were condoning it.

J

 

[Waxpert]

I so agree with you Kim x

 

[squidgernetball]

When I did my college training we never did men....and I've stuck to that other than the odd eyebrow tidy....I would love to know if legally you can advertise as a ladies only salon? Only because I've seen female clients reactions if they hear a male voice in reception and they're in a state of mid wax lol

Maybe I'm old fashioned or a prude but stories like this horrify me and I don't want me or my girls put in that position so to speak.

Yes, because of the intimate nature of our work - waxing, massage etc (not just intimate waxing) you are allowed to say you are a ladies only salon!

 

[OasisB&M]

Oh my god that's gross. I would never re book him again. I would've asked him to leave straight away.

 

[Biljana]

I refuse to let this one sleaze ruin it for every other decent guy who genuinely wants just hair removal. How would I even explain to my existing clients that I cant wax them any longer? This is a situation that needs to be dealt with on an individual basis and as such I have handled it. Once I calmed down and was able to put rational thoughts into my head did I realize how creepy and inappropriate he was, and I hope it never happens to anyone. I have contacted him, and told him he is no longer welcome at my spa. He was ready to argue with me but I calmly told him that I will involve the police if he shows up anywhere near my spa. More over, I have told him that I have informed other spas in the area with his exact description. He hung up on me. I hope this is the end of that.

 

[squidgernetball]

Well done x

 

[Kim Lawless]

I refuse to let this one sleaze ruin it for every other decent guy who genuinely wants just hair removal. How would I even explain to my existing clients that I cant wax them any longer? This is a situation that needs to be dealt with on an individual basis and as such I have handled it. Once I calmed down and was able to put rational thoughts into my head did I realize how creepy and inappropriate he was, and I hope it never happens to anyone. I have contacted him, and told him he is no longer welcome at my spa. He was ready to argue with me but I calmly told him that I will involve the police if he shows up anywhere near my spa. More over, I have told him that I have informed other spas in the area with his exact description. He hung up on me. I hope this is the end of that.

Hurrah! Good for you sister!

 

[Nearlyme]

No nody has answered me lol..is it "normal" for men to get an errection during a wax? Surly not? It would be like me finding a pap smear sexual lol.
I hope no one thinks im lowering the tone but I am silly curious x

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[Lynne Baker]

It's not unheard of. It usually subsides when the first lot of wax is ripped off - sorry - removed...

 

[Nearlyme]

I googled it lol
Just to warn the op there are lots of "porn"sites where men are trading stories on ejaculating during waxes. Basically it appears to be a fettish. They get off on the reaction of the therapist/or not being caught.
I went to the dark place of the net..it wasnt pretty

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