CherryWerry
New Member
Hi there
I'm 32 years old and have worked in nursing for the past 15 years however due to health reasons I've had to reevaluate my career options .
I always wished that I had trained as a beauty therapist but felt that I had gone too far with Healthcare to quit .
However I've decided to bite the bullet and go for it and this September I will be going to college to train as a beauty therapist .
Part of the course involves massage!
Now I probably wouldn't have even thought of this but I'm a regular at my local beauty salon ( I love my Lycon waxes , lashes , nails) and I was talking to the lady that always does my waxing and she said she loves waxing and massage - I said how do u feel about doing male massages ?
She said she doesnt mind but she would never put herself in a vulnerable position , she then proceeded to tell me about one of the other ladies in the salon that did a massage for a man a while back that actually 'c**e' during his massage!!!!
I can't stand the thought of having to have my hands all over a mans back / body that might be getting off on it and being creepy !
Have any of you encountered this ??
Is it unreasonable to not want to be used in that way?
How do you deal with the situation if a male ( or female ) massage clients behaviour becomes inappropriate mid- massage ??
Thanks x
I'm 32 years old and have worked in nursing for the past 15 years however due to health reasons I've had to reevaluate my career options .
I always wished that I had trained as a beauty therapist but felt that I had gone too far with Healthcare to quit .
However I've decided to bite the bullet and go for it and this September I will be going to college to train as a beauty therapist .
Part of the course involves massage!
Now I probably wouldn't have even thought of this but I'm a regular at my local beauty salon ( I love my Lycon waxes , lashes , nails) and I was talking to the lady that always does my waxing and she said she loves waxing and massage - I said how do u feel about doing male massages ?
She said she doesnt mind but she would never put herself in a vulnerable position , she then proceeded to tell me about one of the other ladies in the salon that did a massage for a man a while back that actually 'c**e' during his massage!!!!
I can't stand the thought of having to have my hands all over a mans back / body that might be getting off on it and being creepy !
Have any of you encountered this ??
Is it unreasonable to not want to be used in that way?
How do you deal with the situation if a male ( or female ) massage clients behaviour becomes inappropriate mid- massage ??
Thanks x