what annoys me most is unfit mothers that choose alcohol, drugs and men over their children or drug addicts that not only have their first child taken from them but go on to have more which are also taken away from them. one of those people is my sister. my mum adopted her first child and he now has a happy, fulfilled life. he was taking away before he was 1 into care and was put in my mums care by the time he was 1 1/2 and is now 8. we know he still remembers being neglected due to the way he reacts to certain situations. i think its disgusting that people can bring a baby into the world when they've been taking drugs throughout the pregnancy resulting in the baby being born an addict. my sisters 2nd baby was in neonatal care for weeks so that she could be weened off the drugs, if thats even the correct word to use. she has now found a lovely family that has adopted her and my mum recieves 1 letter a year from her new mummy and daddy informing her of how she is getting on in life. if nobody was to have abortions and every 'unwanted' baby was given up for adoption, there would be a far less adoption rate due to the amount of babies waiting for new families resulting in a higher rate of foster children with no family. my opinion is that id rather end an unwanted pregnancy than knoe that my baby was out there with noone to love it and give it the life i couldnt. iv had one termination, and it was not a form of contraceptive as i was on contraceptive and unluckily fell within that small percent of chance of falling pregnant. i never judge people on these situations anymore but have the utmost respect for other peoples opinions and views on the matter and everyone should be supported regardless of their choice
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