redlottie13
JUST BE NICE
Hi all
It's in my nature to advise clients if they ask for it.
In my younger years I used to give my opinion willy nilly.
However nowadays I am more socially /professionally aware and only comment my thoughts and feelings when asked directly.
.... do you guys do the same?
However a client has told me in confidence some pretty alarming stuff.
Her partner attacked her phyically and has been controlling her for around 6 months.
His excuse was that he's scared she will leave.
The verbal control /abuse ranges from telling her he only wants to see her, and if she wants to see her family and friends then she is 'betraying' his trust.
Last week he stopped talking to her for 4 days as she said that David Beckham was hot! He called her a cheat!
She volunteers the information very freely and I'm unsure what to do with it. I'm terrified she will be found dead one day!
I also do her best friends hair and she's been banned from seeing her.
I have personally told her that it's not normal behaviour and that she should be careful. But have I over stepped the mark?
Any advise welcome x
It's in my nature to advise clients if they ask for it.
In my younger years I used to give my opinion willy nilly.
However nowadays I am more socially /professionally aware and only comment my thoughts and feelings when asked directly.
.... do you guys do the same?
However a client has told me in confidence some pretty alarming stuff.
Her partner attacked her phyically and has been controlling her for around 6 months.
His excuse was that he's scared she will leave.
The verbal control /abuse ranges from telling her he only wants to see her, and if she wants to see her family and friends then she is 'betraying' his trust.
Last week he stopped talking to her for 4 days as she said that David Beckham was hot! He called her a cheat!
She volunteers the information very freely and I'm unsure what to do with it. I'm terrified she will be found dead one day!
I also do her best friends hair and she's been banned from seeing her.
I have personally told her that it's not normal behaviour and that she should be careful. But have I over stepped the mark?
Any advise welcome x