Hi geeks, Just after a bit of advice. So basically my best friend of nearly 6 years has seriously cooled our friendship. We've been through so much together. She had a wee baby almost 11 months ago and of course I understood that priorities change, time becomes less available, but we would have been in contact every day. But over thee past few weeks, I just never hear from her. And the really awkward thing is that she works for me. So anytime I hear from her it's now just to do with work. To be honest, she was a bit of a lazy friend anyway. She rarely suggested doing things....it always came from me, and even though we live 5 mins away from each other, she has been to my house twice in the last year and that was just meeting up to go out for work do's. I was at hear house every week up until she cooled off, and it was always me asking if I could come up, she never invited me. So I just got a bit sick of being the instigator and waited to see if she would make the effort for once.........she never did. I've asked her twice to do something and she has always had a reason not to and a couple of weeks ago I got her on her own and asked what on earth was wrong, but she just kept saying 'nothing', no matter how many times I asked. She's the kind of person who thinks that everyone should run to her and I understand that now she has a baby, she doesn't have the same time....but neither do I! The salon has just gone VAT registered so I'm spending most of my time trying to blast our takings. Should I just accept that she's just not that bothered anymore and get on with my life? I haven't been in work for the past 2 weeks, and I'm dreading going in to my own salon on Wednesday because I don't know what to expect! It's just an awful feeling and I just want to get on with my life. Has our friendship ran its course?