Hi all, so I recently posted about my hair toner done at the salon gone too dark/ashy/grey, kind of dull. I know it will wash off, but I'd rather be happy with my color now than say 3 weeks later. She used Alfaparf colorwear 9.21,very light violet ash blonde, left on for about 30 min. (Was that too long maybe?) I def want a cool tone (I do roots with high lift and end up pretty warm), I love the ashy/silvery look, yet my hair lightens to about a level 9 and the hairdresser said she can't use a toner that's very light. What would you suggest in terms of toners (not necessarily brands, just the shade range/combo) that would give me a nice, bright, yet cool toned look? I do not want any yellow/warmth, rather a creamy,pearly buttery color if that makes sense Lol. Thanks in advance everyone!