I agree with Oasis. Do you know anyone who is a solicitor??? If you do, they can put a letter together for you (as an individual rather than through their law firm therefore costing your zilch) saying that they're your solicitor and that you'll take legal action against her if she continues to talk about you. She does sound like a piece of work but for most people I think this would be enough to put the wind up them. Good luck, I hope this all turns out ok for you. I think the fact that she didn't come back and see you for so long really works in your favour. Firstly, if they felt that uncomfortable any sane person would be back within a couple of days and secondly, if she'd had proper maintenance it would all be fine x
Exactly, she came in on a Tuesday and didn't get married until the Saturday! I asked why she didn't come in before the wedding if she wasn't pleased and she said she was too busy. She keeps changing her story too.
I'm starting to feel my confidence reappear now
I don't think I know anyone who is a solicitor. But I will ask around.