Bonnie@lashout
Well-Known Member
hey ladies,
i dont usually post off topic things on here, but im struggling a bit with some emotions and im not usually the type to blurt it all out to friends.
i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and i couldnt be happier, we have decided we want to live together, only prob is that i live in Bognor and he lives in Petworth, they are about half and hour away from each other, which isnt the end of the world, but i dont want to move there and he doesnt want to move here and we cant agree on somewhere, everywhere that is a possible place is far to expensive for us. also if i move away thats all my clients gone that i have worked so hard for. even if i get another (better paid) job from my current part time retail one, its too far for me to travel whilst im living here.... i cant get a house without a better job but i cant get a better job without a house.....
i feel bad because i feel like im making all the sacrifice, as he has had his own well established company for over 5 years, and every time we talk about it it no other soloutions come up and i just get upset. i thought that maybe it isnt the right time for us, but then i think its never gonna change,
help and Hugs needed, stress bringing me down
i dont usually post off topic things on here, but im struggling a bit with some emotions and im not usually the type to blurt it all out to friends.
i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and i couldnt be happier, we have decided we want to live together, only prob is that i live in Bognor and he lives in Petworth, they are about half and hour away from each other, which isnt the end of the world, but i dont want to move there and he doesnt want to move here and we cant agree on somewhere, everywhere that is a possible place is far to expensive for us. also if i move away thats all my clients gone that i have worked so hard for. even if i get another (better paid) job from my current part time retail one, its too far for me to travel whilst im living here.... i cant get a house without a better job but i cant get a better job without a house.....
i feel bad because i feel like im making all the sacrifice, as he has had his own well established company for over 5 years, and every time we talk about it it no other soloutions come up and i just get upset. i thought that maybe it isnt the right time for us, but then i think its never gonna change,
help and Hugs needed, stress bringing me down