latintherapist
Active Member
Hin
Happy New Year to every one. My situation is a bit complicated.
I have been with my partner for 5 years, and engaged for 4 years. When we got together everything was ok but then we moved together and suddenly we had a family with 2 teenagers living with us and a mother in law living in the nanny's house. We had so many ups and downs but more downs than ups. I do not love him as my partner due to numerous issues between us.... but I just thought I wanted to give everything to save the relationship before taking any drastic decision. I have tried and we became good friends again but the chemistry was not there for me anymore. He does not like my children and Christmas was very stressful. My children left on boxing day just to avoid problems. He has been telling me how much he loves me and adores me, and that his life will be destroyed without me (he has a powerful job), and also he said that he is a very good catch (good salary, lovely house, etc), so..... for new year he decided to go to scotland to a few football matches with his friend and son until the 2nd of Jan. He knew I couldnt go because I have my own business but I was ok because I was planning to go to see my son for new year. THEN...in the 29th of dec, his mother had a health complication, and he was on his way to scotland, and while he is still in Scotland with his friends I have been feeding and helping her (demanding old lady), so i couldn't go to my son's for new year and ended up just on my own feeling very sorry for myself, crying and tryin to reevaluate my life. I have been unhappy for long time but the implications of leaving him kept me trying over and over again. NOW...I am getting some of my stuff ready. I am leaving him. I have taking my decision and I thought new year new beginning. OMG, I am terrified but If i never try I will never know. :Scared:xxx
Happy New Year to every one. My situation is a bit complicated.
I have been with my partner for 5 years, and engaged for 4 years. When we got together everything was ok but then we moved together and suddenly we had a family with 2 teenagers living with us and a mother in law living in the nanny's house. We had so many ups and downs but more downs than ups. I do not love him as my partner due to numerous issues between us.... but I just thought I wanted to give everything to save the relationship before taking any drastic decision. I have tried and we became good friends again but the chemistry was not there for me anymore. He does not like my children and Christmas was very stressful. My children left on boxing day just to avoid problems. He has been telling me how much he loves me and adores me, and that his life will be destroyed without me (he has a powerful job), and also he said that he is a very good catch (good salary, lovely house, etc), so..... for new year he decided to go to scotland to a few football matches with his friend and son until the 2nd of Jan. He knew I couldnt go because I have my own business but I was ok because I was planning to go to see my son for new year. THEN...in the 29th of dec, his mother had a health complication, and he was on his way to scotland, and while he is still in Scotland with his friends I have been feeding and helping her (demanding old lady), so i couldn't go to my son's for new year and ended up just on my own feeling very sorry for myself, crying and tryin to reevaluate my life. I have been unhappy for long time but the implications of leaving him kept me trying over and over again. NOW...I am getting some of my stuff ready. I am leaving him. I have taking my decision and I thought new year new beginning. OMG, I am terrified but If i never try I will never know. :Scared:xxx