Sandy,
Sorry to hear you are having this problem. I worked with acrylics for 4 years and quit due to many problems including a reaction that was not identified as an allergy. 10 years later I decide to start again, 1 exposure to acrylic and the whole reaction started again. So I tried gels. Guess what, after about 3 months working with gel the whole reaction started again, even worse now!! This time my eyelids were cracked and bleeding and my fingers were covered in blisters and redness that was so annoying I was chewing them in the middle of the night while sleeping. I took my summer holidays to decide what I was going to do and to take the time to heal. Started up again and the allergy was almost immediate. I was too stubborn to give up so I have found some things that help.
1. I stopped using any bonder gels (that was a big help)
2. I started using a barrier cream
3. I installed a vent system that sucks up dust and also blows dust down into the vent so there is a minimum of dust on my hands or face
4. I wash very well immediately after the service and also use a hand sanitizer after washing.
I think the most important thing I did was to let my body heal totally before starting again. Even now I still have to take antihistamines some days and I still get some itchy fingers but I am able to keep it all to a minimum.
I too loved acrylics and know that the switch can be difficult. I am in Canada where gels are more of a specialized service so I can sell them very well. Almost all of my customers were previous acrylic wearers but all now love the gel. A few of my customers had lots of trouble until they tried gel and now they wouldn't go back. We can charge more for gels (in Canada) than for acrylic. So maybe this could be a great opportunity for you!!
Please take the time to heal and to consider gels. I have found that Akzentz has gels that I can use (and love!!) that cause me the least reactions. Others have not been so good.
Good luck!!