NailGeek Widowers, eh?
Here's my experience. My hubby complained that I spend all my time on the computer, never spent any time with him (obviously I was on the Geek site, much more interesting than watching telly, which is what he wants me to do!). So I spent less time on here, & watch telly with him. Recently we had a big to do about our relationship (many of you know it's not been too good), I wanted emotional support from him, he wanted me to bring in some regular money & stop wearing my rose tinted glasses, thinking I could make my own nails & beauty business a success. I virtually stopped coming here all together.
I agree, it has been going much slower than I'd hoped, and things are
really tight, so I've been going for every job out there, be it office, shop, beauty trainee, anything. What emotional support have I had? NOTHING! He hasn't even phoned to find out how I got on today at an interview that he knew I was really, really nervous about (bad experience once, now I'm terrified of interviews, & this one I knew was gonna be long & lots of difficult questions).
The result? I'm gonna come back here when I want. From day one of me coming here I've had more support than I've ever got from him. You guys are a great bunch, & when I leave here I always feel that I've been with friends!
Thanks guys!
PS He's not a bad person, honestly, just doesn't know how to give what I need.
PPS - By the way, I'm not giving up on nails, I'm gonna get some money coming in, save up and do a Creative Foundation course. Reason? - Yesterday I thought I'd better make my nails look prettier for my interview today, & got out my Creative Try Me kit that's sat for a couple of weeks due to the above situation. OOHHH! I love the workability of it (if I love it without training, WOW I can't wait to use it with product training!), and I especially love the colour of the white! I'd left 2 nails with another product on them, & can't beleive the difference! The other stuff looks dull, actually rubbish compared (I'm not gonna name it, rules & all that). Now I see why so many rave about it!