Well I've completely woken up on the wrong side this morning.... Told my partner I've had enough of us not going out, not having time to ourselves. All we've spoke about for the last 3 years is business, building and money! So once again I've given in to it and brought a pack of fights... Which I'm working my ay through had a little cry to mystlf( don't show emotion well ) and now ill try and carry on with my day.... When I've finished my ciggy.
Anyone else feel like this at times?
There are so many threads like this that I could have written, and whilst I'm really sorry to hear of you feeling this way, it is in a strange way reassuring to know I'm not the only one.
I have tried to talk to my partner, and despite him saying he's a good communicator, (he is when he's just doing the talking), he just looks at me with a blank expression.
It does help if you have a good old cry, but that dosn't resolve the problem.
with everyone trying so hard to build a living, it's not easy, and relationships, like everything else need to be worked on.
I'm at the stage now where it is really affecting my health, so, please, persevere with this. The thing is, it really isn't difficult to spend quality time together, even an hour here and there can make a whole lot of difference, and just the reassurance that you're both on the same song sheet helps too.
But, I don't think men realise just how important relationships are to us, we need to feel part of a relationship, we need to be valued as a person in our own right, and as you quite rightly said, you must spend time together to cement this.
It's so easy to forget ourselves, so hang in there, I know how your'e feeling, and hopefully it will get better for you. xx