JuZz'<3
Well-Known Member
My grandma's friend has just had a boob job, so she calls and says
JUZZ I WANT SOMETHING NEW TO BRING OUT MY YOUNGER KICK ASS SIDE
(she's only in her 60's so in my eyes, she's still young, and she has a out going, spontaneous personality)
we agreed on putting some red flashes through her natural dark brown hair
so I called in this morning to do it.. she loved it! I loved it!
half way through it developing, my uncles new girlfriend walked in with their son, and her daughter (from previous)
well I don't have a problem with children, I adore them, even trying for a family myself... but this child really gets me annoyed, shes very 'spoilt' the sort of, I WANT NOW, or I will stamp my feet, kick, cry and scream till I am heard sort of child.
She saw the red, and told her mum she wanted red hair (shes got naturally blonde hair) her mum asked me if I would do it...
I said no!
1) my insurance wont cover
2) shes 11!
3) if I colour it now, she will be having it coloured for the rest of her life!
4) what would school say?!
5) my reputation!! no way am I letting her saying 'Oh Justine did it' for people to think bad of me!
it turned into a bit of a argument in the end, because she was crying saying 'it wasn't fair' and her mum was mad that I had 'upset' her by saying no!
my grandma was on my side,
but Im feeling a little down about it really, since leaving my grandma's I cannot stop thinking about it.. how can 'family' react in such a way? how can any Mother in the right minds think its OK for a child to scream and cry and get their own way...
how can any Mother even think Red hair on a 11 year old is suitable?
do any of you think I was being a bit harsh?
what would you of done?!
JUZZ I WANT SOMETHING NEW TO BRING OUT MY YOUNGER KICK ASS SIDE
(she's only in her 60's so in my eyes, she's still young, and she has a out going, spontaneous personality)
we agreed on putting some red flashes through her natural dark brown hair
so I called in this morning to do it.. she loved it! I loved it!
half way through it developing, my uncles new girlfriend walked in with their son, and her daughter (from previous)
well I don't have a problem with children, I adore them, even trying for a family myself... but this child really gets me annoyed, shes very 'spoilt' the sort of, I WANT NOW, or I will stamp my feet, kick, cry and scream till I am heard sort of child.
She saw the red, and told her mum she wanted red hair (shes got naturally blonde hair) her mum asked me if I would do it...
I said no!
1) my insurance wont cover
2) shes 11!
3) if I colour it now, she will be having it coloured for the rest of her life!
4) what would school say?!
5) my reputation!! no way am I letting her saying 'Oh Justine did it' for people to think bad of me!
it turned into a bit of a argument in the end, because she was crying saying 'it wasn't fair' and her mum was mad that I had 'upset' her by saying no!
my grandma was on my side,
but Im feeling a little down about it really, since leaving my grandma's I cannot stop thinking about it.. how can 'family' react in such a way? how can any Mother in the right minds think its OK for a child to scream and cry and get their own way...
how can any Mother even think Red hair on a 11 year old is suitable?
do any of you think I was being a bit harsh?
what would you of done?!