Pinkbunny28
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Its the 'how to say it' bit I'm struggling with. Hopefully I will not wimp out...lol
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Awkward dating question
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MissyMuffin
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Don't think it's how to say it that's the issue really, it's what to say if he comes back at you. That's where I get stressed, you can't know his reaction. Best of luck!
Pinkbunny28
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True. I will have to just be calm and honest. Thanks x
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xnailsbylisax
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Let us know how it goes 
goodluck x
goodluck x
MissyMuffin
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xnailsbylisax
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Says the pro
You negotiated it well
After backing out once though haha
i am steering well clear now for another 6 years! Too much hassle & i love being on my own too much
MissyMuffin
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If that's how you're happy then stick with it.
I look around at so many married people and they look miserable as hell.
My aunt is widowed and she says she'd only have a man if she could keep one in a cupboard and get him out when she wants a lunch date. Can't fault her!
I look around at so many married people and they look miserable as hell.
My aunt is widowed and she says she'd only have a man if she could keep one in a cupboard and get him out when she wants a lunch date. Can't fault her!
Pinkbunny28
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Oh no I got rid of him very fast and he took it horribly. But he is a bit of a nice guy. There's nothing wrong exactly.... I think I'm just not ready to be in a relationship with someone and he's saying he's gna be 'really good' on holiday. Ummm I really don't care?! I'd like to date other people too so I can take my pick
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Pinkbunny28
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After backing out once though haha
Don't give up. There are better ones out there! You can just be more picky and not attract mr nicey pants next time
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MissyMuffin
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Lol! This is quite bizarre. We don't like a man being nice.
Yet we've all dumped men for being horrible in some way.
Fickle aren't we.
Yet we've all dumped men for being horrible in some way.
Fickle aren't we.
My god ladies I've skimmed over this post but things all seem very complicated with your men
Now I've been there bought the t shirt when it comes to relationships and all I can say that if I don't feel right get out.
Honestly - you don't have to work at relationships, if u have to work at it surely that's the biggest flashing neon sign u can get that's says it's not right.
Unfortunately as women a lot of us need to feel loved. And as a result get drawn and stuck in the wrong relationship.
He doesn't need to be a hunky cave man to make u happy, just someone that makes u laugh, that gives u butterflies and who u still look forward to seeing at the end of every day,
If u don't feel that he's not for you.
So man up / tell him if it's not right and move on. Don't waste your life away having niggling doubts - of having to work at it.
Speaking from far too much experience
Now I've been there bought the t shirt when it comes to relationships and all I can say that if I don't feel right get out.
Honestly - you don't have to work at relationships, if u have to work at it surely that's the biggest flashing neon sign u can get that's says it's not right.
Unfortunately as women a lot of us need to feel loved. And as a result get drawn and stuck in the wrong relationship.
He doesn't need to be a hunky cave man to make u happy, just someone that makes u laugh, that gives u butterflies and who u still look forward to seeing at the end of every day,
If u don't feel that he's not for you.
So man up / tell him if it's not right and move on. Don't waste your life away having niggling doubts - of having to work at it.
Speaking from far too much experience
MissyMuffin
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My god ladies I've skimmed over this post but things all seem very complicated with your men
Now I've been there bought the t shirt when it comes to relationships and all I can say that if I don't feel right get out.
Honestly - you don't have to work at relationships, if u have to work at it surely that's the biggest flashing neon sign u can get that's says it's not right.
Unfortunately as women a lot of us need to feel loved. And as a result get drawn and stuck in the wrong relationship.
He doesn't need to be a hunky cave man to make u happy, just someone that makes u laugh, that gives u butterflies and who u still look forward to seeing at the end of every day,
If u don't feel that he's not for you.
So man up / tell him if it's not right and move on. Don't waste your life away having niggling doubts - of having to work at it.
Speaking from far too much experience
What she said. Spot on.
Pinkbunny28
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Yep. Too right!!
We had a chat. I think he gets that I don't want a relationship with him... I am going to text him later as well though. I also got the 'I miss you' text which I ignored and he pulled me up on it haha oops x
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We had a chat. I think he gets that I don't want a relationship with him... I am going to text him later as well though. I also got the 'I miss you' text which I ignored and he pulled me up on it haha oops x
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xnailsbylisax
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Haha oops! So what did you say to him x
Pinkbunny28
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He actually started it! Asked me what I wanted etc anyway he said well you know I like you and think you're beautiful. He also pulled me up on the fact I don't compliment him much lol. Anyway once he'd said he wanted to see if we could maybe be 'together' I just explained that I wasn't sure if that was what I was looking for and he shouldn't hold back on seeing other people if thats what he wanted (a relationship). Now he's texted me saying he's happy how we're going if I am? I just said maybe and reiterated that he should have fun on his holiday. But he can't really do anything if he doesnt see me again can he lol x
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Pinkbunny28
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I am a muppet... I actually really like him. have seen him a few more times and it's going well but he's fully aware i dont want a full on relationship so no pressure
Question: when is it acceptable to start whipping out the student discount card when you're on a date? 5th/10th date? Never? Haha x
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Question: when is it acceptable to start whipping out the student discount card when you're on a date? 5th/10th date? Never? Haha x
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xnailsbylisax
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I am a muppet... I actually really like him. have seen him a few more times and it's going well but he's fully aware i dont want a full on relationship so no pressure
Question: when is it acceptable to start whipping out the student discount card when you're on a date? 5th/10th date? Never? Haha x
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If its your discount, 1st date. If its his discount, never haha
Pinkbunny28
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Thanks haha I haven't got it out yet but we've talked about Groupon so I feel bad letting him pay the full amount when I can get some off! I'll just mention that I have a card and have a short conversation about it. But I made him get a costa card as I felt he should join my loyalty scheme madness
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xnailsbylisax
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Well who'd have thought it. I have purposely kept quiet to see how things panned out :lol:
I ended it like you all know but 3 days later had a complete change of heart. Don't know what happened but for some reason something snapped & i just changed the way i thought.
We got talking, i said i regretted ending it & so we decided to give it another go. That was a month ago. I am happier than ever think i was finding faults & finding a way out as i thought 'it hasn't worked with other people so i will just push him away until he goes' but i'm so glad i decided to give it another go.
Thought i would update you all hope everyone else is ok
I ended it like you all know but 3 days later had a complete change of heart. Don't know what happened but for some reason something snapped & i just changed the way i thought.
We got talking, i said i regretted ending it & so we decided to give it another go. That was a month ago. I am happier than ever
think i was finding faults & finding a way out as i thought 'it hasn't worked with other people so i will just push him away until he goes' but i'm so glad i decided to give it another go.Thought i would update you all
hope everyone else is ok
