Hi All,
So just needing a girlie chat/informal convo for you girls who are interested So, to start off I am 27 yrs old and I have a group of 6 very close best friends of whom Iv known since secondary school! Today I got a message from one of them announcing she is pregnant with her first! She is the last of them to be having a baby besides myself so I am now the last one left!
Im not trying for a baby yet but now they have all had their firsts im just feeling rather overwhelmed and slightly pressured (not by them or anyone else) just by myself to hurry up and have one!
I feel very behind all of them!
Two of them are married, Two are engaged , Two have their own houses and they have all had babies or are pregnant now with seconds!
Im happy with my life but just trying to save for a deposit for our house which seems to be taking forever!! We live in a gorgeous flat in Brentwood which my boyfriend owns and he will keep to rent out so he is paying the mortgage at the mo and I am saving for a brand new deposit so we are in a good position but I just want to own my own house before I think of having babies ,I think Id also like to get married first as well!! lol
So three big events , buying a house , getting married and having a baby!!! All things Id loved to do right now but having to prioritise as cant afford all three at once! I just want it all now... why do these things take so long! I know when itll happen itll happen and im not getting edgy or driving my other half up the wall yet but in my head i feel like everyones 10 steps ahead of me and Iv got a lot of catching up to do ! Just feels like im never gona get there!
Do any of you feel like this or felt this in the past? I know you shouldnt compare your life to others but sometimes you just cant help it. I will state I Am not depressed i am actually very happy just being a spoilt kid and wanting these things now haha xx
So just needing a girlie chat/informal convo for you girls who are interested So, to start off I am 27 yrs old and I have a group of 6 very close best friends of whom Iv known since secondary school! Today I got a message from one of them announcing she is pregnant with her first! She is the last of them to be having a baby besides myself so I am now the last one left!
Im not trying for a baby yet but now they have all had their firsts im just feeling rather overwhelmed and slightly pressured (not by them or anyone else) just by myself to hurry up and have one!
I feel very behind all of them!
Two of them are married, Two are engaged , Two have their own houses and they have all had babies or are pregnant now with seconds!
Im happy with my life but just trying to save for a deposit for our house which seems to be taking forever!! We live in a gorgeous flat in Brentwood which my boyfriend owns and he will keep to rent out so he is paying the mortgage at the mo and I am saving for a brand new deposit so we are in a good position but I just want to own my own house before I think of having babies ,I think Id also like to get married first as well!! lol
So three big events , buying a house , getting married and having a baby!!! All things Id loved to do right now but having to prioritise as cant afford all three at once! I just want it all now... why do these things take so long! I know when itll happen itll happen and im not getting edgy or driving my other half up the wall yet but in my head i feel like everyones 10 steps ahead of me and Iv got a lot of catching up to do ! Just feels like im never gona get there!
Do any of you feel like this or felt this in the past? I know you shouldnt compare your life to others but sometimes you just cant help it. I will state I Am not depressed i am actually very happy just being a spoilt kid and wanting these things now haha xx