Escorting 18+?

[TPB]

I couldn't find a topic already on this subject.
However i am curious to who have done this, or who are planning on this?

I was actually thinking of doing this myself, non sexual of course, and try to get out more while making money and having everything paid for, sounds ideal, but i'm guessing it won't be as straight forward.
Anyhow who has done this?

 

[Hazemalone]

I think you might find it hard to find a legitimate business "escorting" and even harder to find legimate "clients"

 

[TPB]

I think you might find it hard to find a legitimate business "escorting" and even harder to find legimate "clients"

Yes, i see what you mean. I have looked at many sites, they all charge a joining fee too :/

 

[beauty212]

can i ask why you would like to go down this road..?

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[Kim Lawless]

Is there such a thing as non sexual escorting really? I wouldn't get involved in that kind of thing because even at it's best you'll be spending the evening with guys that can't get a date so what does that tell you. It's not like Pretty Woman so I would nt go down that road. Wish you well with whatever you do.

 

[mollie1985]

Have to agree I think you would find it hard to get clients who don't want that bit extra plus with the world today I think it's a very dangerous game xx

 

[xxsarahj25xx]

I can understand the attraction in theory, but i would worry that these men who have to pay women to tolerate them might get abit attatched and stalkerish lol

Have you thought about being 1 of them shot girls in night clubs? Or them promo staff who gab onto evryone to get them in bars? Still very sociable without the fear of "are they expecting a bonk?" Lol xx

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[tonicj]

If you were my daughter I would NOT be happy! You could be putting yourself in danger!

 

[Gracemae23]

I think that the movies make this look glamorous. It's not and the reality is they will expect more because they will think that's the sort of person you are. Do not disrespect yourself doing this. I'm a single mum of a 2 year old you doesn't see her dad at all, no money from him, I've no family around me, but you no what I have my shop, my business is thriving I've worked my arse off, I still train in the gym 4 times a week and manage my marathon training, plus building my business and starting a fitness instructors course soon. There are ways to earn an honest living in this world what ever your situation is if you put your mind to it. Don't disrespect your self your worth more. And I agree with pp if you were my daughter I'd go mental. Stay safe!! x

 

[Penny Vintage]

I think legitimate, non sexual escorting does exist but only for normal escorts. I'm sure they find these jobs easy and almost a perk so a unknown new person getting just these jobs I'm not sure I believe they are genuine. Besides the moral and safety concerns I'd say its very risky and either a scam or worse.

 

[eternalscot]

I know lots of girls who worked in saunas, escorts for high end, strippers glamour modelling or ended up doing the streets. It's all the same, selling sex. Some of these girls are rough as! This is the ideal route to go down to mess up your head! None of these girls (i knew) 15 years on despite the money have made a success of their life. Seedy seedy seedy!

In saunas a man comes into the house and all the girls sit in a living room done up. He chooses a girl and you do the business's for £50. You could be shagging 10 a day. If you think your head will not be messed up by the disturbed perverts you will met, your wrong. My friend would not listen to me. She must regret but she was such a know it all. No no no, ever!!! Not glamorous but dirty, risky, seedy stupid!!!

As for the not having sex things. I had a friend who got paid to hang up laying it on a plate for VIPs many if them did not want sex but they just to a stack of drugs with then instead. Easy money, only your are known as a hooker and word gets about, be careful!!! It could ruin your life!

 

[coco.]

I think if you go ahead, this will stick with you for a very long time.
People talk and rumors get spread very easily, it may all be very innocent but it has the potential to ruin your personal and professional reputation.
I would stay well clear I just don't think its worth the risk!

 

[Elaine Armani]

I have to agree with everyone else. Men these days are HUNGRY. And I totally agree a decent man wouldn't need to pay to have a women with them. I have a friend that did this when she had nothing else and was in debt and now she's had to stick to it because she had nothing left for her. Things like this never end nicely, just take little baby steps and avoid the "easy money".

 

[Elaine Armani]

Also I have friends that are strippers & make money from sex. I have to agree with EternalScott, they're literally messed up, drug users, suicidal and are going through bad depression. These girls used to be really innocent and lovely. They had no idea what they were getting them selves into, they advertise as "non sexual" but really it is.
I hope you don't take this wrong but it's better if you work for honest money, it will take longer but atleast you will be comfortable
Xxx

 

[Balance Andover]

I think that films like Pretty Woman and TV series Secret life of a call girl give a false representation. I don't for one minute think the men look like Richard Gere or stay in 5 star hotels.

I know you said you wanted to do 'non sexual' escorting and I agree with Kim that I don't think it actually exists, perhaps only to lure new girls in.

I recently saw a TV program called 'Jodie Marsh on the game' where she did a documentary about the sex industry, it was quite an eye opener and I would advise you to watch it.

 

[squidgernetball]

Quite surprised at so many negative responses. I thought there would be one or two who had done it and not seeing it as just sex.

Going back about 25 years a very good friend of mine worked as an escort - absolutely no sex involved. It was generally business men either in a different town or country wanting a bit of company, out for dinner. She was married with 2 young children and they needed money. She worked through an agency and it was all terribly high brow. She was expected to be able to have witty, intelligent conversation, and look very elegant. In return had all her taxi fares paid and earned £200 per night. And absolutely no sex. She did it for about 4 months. Her good friend worked as a stripper and is now a very successful actress!

If you know what you are doing, people know where you are and the ground rules are laid out, it can be a means to an end.

I have to say back then I was sorely tempted, and with my tax bill looming, you never know!

 

[eternalscot]

Quite surprised at so many negative responses. I thought there would be one or two who had done it and not seeing it as just sex.

Going back about 25 years a very good friend of mine worked as an escort - absolutely no sex involved. It was generally business men either in a different town or country wanting a bit of company, out for dinner. She was married with 2 young children and they needed money. She worked through an agency and it was all terribly high brow. She was expected to be able to have witty, intelligent conversation, and look very elegant. In return had all her taxi fares paid and earned £200 per night. And absolutely no sex. She did it for about 4 months. Her good friend worked as a stripper and is now a very successful actress!

If you know what you are doing, people know where you are and the ground rules are laid out, it can be a means to an end.

I have to say back then I was sorely tempted, and with my tax bill looming, you never know!

Sorry to say. "I don't have sex with them but I get expenses plus £200" 25 years ago was a lot then, sure she was not fibbing?. Prostitutes have a habit of lying even to themselves! No one I know would believe that, plenty would lie about to judgemental friends and tell them it's no sex. Then you have to add the cut of the escort agency or sauna in (approximate 40%) which explains why we still have girls on the street cutting the middle man out. So a man was paying £280 plus expenses in 1990 just for dinner, aye right!

I have also known girls who worked as Airline stewards who i worked with and then went off to work in Japan as hostess, no sex but loads of money lure, yeah right!

Although I did here about a man would pay sauna staff just to cuddle him, but please, not a good idea ever! Just forget it, now!

 

[LocksOfLove]

My male friend is an escort... He is gorgeous! He charges £200 a date but absolutely no sex is involved. He said it's normally lonely middle aged woman wanting a 'date' to work do's etc. luckily I get him company free haha. There is genuine companies out there which have a strict no sex policy, personally I don't see the harm if your sensible let someone know what your doing and text someone where you are at all times. You'll find it's people wanting to be accompanied to parties etc who would like a date to be present or business men out of their area wanting company ... I don't see the shame. It's nothing like prostitution. I also have a friend who is a pole dancer - she loves it, she earns 00's and never gets grief - she's well protected and if anyone tried to touch her the bouncers are on them straight away. I remember going to the club she works at one night slapping her bum as a laugh and nearly got pounced on by two guys haha - not knowing I was her friend.

There's no shame in it at all. It could be fun, just be careful and you'll be okay. Most of them will probably be mongs but all you have to do is chat, eat and keep them company.. Xxx

 

[mm29]

I had a client until I moved that was an escort , amazing money but no way is it only dinner and a few drinks
She also would not recommend any young girls to start it

A friend used to work in a strip club and it was so hard for her to leave because of the money, she liked it at first all new and exciting but hated it in the end and now she's a lesbian, think it put her off men for life

Don't go down this path x

 

[squidgernetball]

If you don't want to do it, don't do it, but yes, my friend got paid £200 in London in 1990.

And I'm not a judgemental friend. She was a very open person and certainly would have told me if sex was involved, but it wasn't.

I don't particularly care if someone wants to sleep with someone for money - I usually hold out for a nice pair of shoes lol!

The OP was asking about escorting, no sex. If it suddenly becomes sex against someones will, it is not prostitution, it's rape!