Hiya, when my friend gets hers done she uses teething gel lol. I did an intimate waxing course and the lady gave me the tip, which I passed on and she's never looked back. She uses a cheap one from asda and says she barely feels a thing. It has a local anaesthetic in, only mild as its used on babies teeth, said it feels strange but she'd never go for a wax without it now! But the lady above is right, all the aftercare advice should be given to first timers on a printed sheet xx