How do you know when its time to call it quits in a relationship?
I have been with my fiancé for 3 years now, living together for nearly 2 and I'm feeling like I am ready to call it quits!!
We have had our ups and downs like any relationship but I'm feeling like enough is enough. He has recently got a new job, and while money is good (for him), were suffering!
He works nights and I work days at a home salon i have set up at my dads house around the corner. He seems to have the attitude that if i have more than 3 clients a day, its too much. I already have at least 3 days a week where I'm not working, but its still 'too much' to him but I think its not! I try to explain that just because I am self employed, doesn't mean i have to hardly work...
His constantly 'joking' telling me everyday that I'm messaging 'my boyfriends' he knows this upsets me but won't stop because 'thats the way he is'
He found out I spoke to a friend about how I am unhappy and needless to say I'm now not friends with her...
I'm not 'allowed' to talk to males...
He acts as if I'd be 'nothing' without him.
I know I would also frustrate him in ways but I'm starting to be over his behaviour that his started in the last year.
I'm also afraid of looking like a complete failure for not trying harder if I leave...
Sorry for the big post, i feel too embarrassed to even tell friends how I'm feeling!
I have been with my fiancé for 3 years now, living together for nearly 2 and I'm feeling like I am ready to call it quits!!
We have had our ups and downs like any relationship but I'm feeling like enough is enough. He has recently got a new job, and while money is good (for him), were suffering!
He works nights and I work days at a home salon i have set up at my dads house around the corner. He seems to have the attitude that if i have more than 3 clients a day, its too much. I already have at least 3 days a week where I'm not working, but its still 'too much' to him but I think its not! I try to explain that just because I am self employed, doesn't mean i have to hardly work...
His constantly 'joking' telling me everyday that I'm messaging 'my boyfriends' he knows this upsets me but won't stop because 'thats the way he is'
He found out I spoke to a friend about how I am unhappy and needless to say I'm now not friends with her...
I'm not 'allowed' to talk to males...
He acts as if I'd be 'nothing' without him.
I know I would also frustrate him in ways but I'm starting to be over his behaviour that his started in the last year.
I'm also afraid of looking like a complete failure for not trying harder if I leave...
Sorry for the big post, i feel too embarrassed to even tell friends how I'm feeling!