besthands
Well-Known Member
Ladies, i messed up about 8 years ago. I only today found the woman that "got away". Actually i broke it off so i quess i should say she didn't get away, i quess you could say, i tossed her away.
We were awesome togather, it was along distance relationship but we managed on the weekends.
I was having serious medical issues with by back after 3 surgeries leaving me with sever and nonstop pain so bad at times i couldn't even walk, sit, i was a mess with it. She was aware of all this and was very supportive.
I was angrey, hurting, and rude to here the last time i saw her, i didnt care for her feelings even though she did nothing wrong. We wernt really having issues.
I was have an issue with life, not with her ( i know i sucked ), but with pain, and mother dieing from cancer, my father with parkinsens, heck my whole life was in conflict.
She was just a bystander that caught my (assness). Heres the thing i have always regretted the day i ended it with her. But honestly after the 3 weeksit took me to regain what i had done, she was long gone, moved, i had no idea where she was so i deleted her number and i moved on. She did to.
I just found her today. I left contact info. and asked her to reach me if she would.
My question is , how do i approach her. i know i need to apologize for myself to her, i usually speak my heart well, but i was quite cold and indifferent to her when i ended things. I have no idea if shes even available or not, but i want to address my actions just the same if she will give me the chance.
Any suggestions, honestly im open to anything you have to say, good or bad. Its been long over due.
We were awesome togather, it was along distance relationship but we managed on the weekends.
I was having serious medical issues with by back after 3 surgeries leaving me with sever and nonstop pain so bad at times i couldn't even walk, sit, i was a mess with it. She was aware of all this and was very supportive.
I was angrey, hurting, and rude to here the last time i saw her, i didnt care for her feelings even though she did nothing wrong. We wernt really having issues.
I was have an issue with life, not with her ( i know i sucked ), but with pain, and mother dieing from cancer, my father with parkinsens, heck my whole life was in conflict.
She was just a bystander that caught my (assness). Heres the thing i have always regretted the day i ended it with her. But honestly after the 3 weeksit took me to regain what i had done, she was long gone, moved, i had no idea where she was so i deleted her number and i moved on. She did to.
I just found her today. I left contact info. and asked her to reach me if she would.
My question is , how do i approach her. i know i need to apologize for myself to her, i usually speak my heart well, but i was quite cold and indifferent to her when i ended things. I have no idea if shes even available or not, but i want to address my actions just the same if she will give me the chance.
Any suggestions, honestly im open to anything you have to say, good or bad. Its been long over due.