Thanks again for all of your very kind words.
It's funny, I look back and it seems a lifetime ago. I watched my copy of it after you gals posted this thread and I was thinking "oh... that was me?" Not only do I not remember looking like that, I don't remember being that person. I've changed a great deal.
Feeling the confidence in my body has affected me on the inside and outside..
It's very hard to explain.
But I think it's once you're comfortable in your own skin, and not worrying how people are looking at you, or if your stuffing's gonna leak or pop out... etc.. then you can just enjoy 'being' and just enjoy your day.
Make any sense?
Example: prior to surgery, in the summers I had to wear these heavy thick t-shirts that would hide the fact that my bras were stuffed to the hilt. I'd be boiling hot and miserable. THEN I had surgery and could comfortable wear those cami tops with built in shelf bras without a bra and wow I am soooooooooo comfortable and NOT HOT so I can enjoy summer activities more. Crazy business boobs are LOL
Hugs again all around
:hug:
PS: as for the reference to the twins... as a joke to my hubby, shortly after surgery, I was wearing "pasties" as I wasn't allowed to wear a bra for 3mths BUT HATED having headlights all the time. I was VERY self concious of the headlights LOL Anyhow, one day as a joke. I wrote on one "sugar" and "spice" on the other. Well, you can wear them about 3days straight if you want. I forgot what I had written and went for a post-op follow-up appointment. My surgeon did a double take and cracked right up.
:o
He said "that's a new one to me"
These stupid flubs only ever happen to me:o :o
LOL