Hi guys bit of a long one this....
Right me and hubby have been together for 11 yrs, married for nearly 8. we have 2 boys aged 6&7. Seans mum hates me and our children & has on many occasions told me so,she has said she could never love anything that has come from me, she hates my kids(who are also her sons kids!!) She never came to our wedding, has picked fights with me and on a couple of occasions she has even tried to set my husband up with other women. We have disowned her several times, not because of what she does to us, but the fact that her grandaughter (seans sisters daughter) is the apple of her eye. She has taken her on holidays, bought her expensive presents and just has all the time in the world for her. Yet my kids are lucky to get a cheap gift served up in a plastic bag for their birthday. Its not the money just the fact that there ALWAYS treated second best!!!
Anyway her brother died last year and he was only 41, she says it has changed her but it hasnt... the boys havent seen her since xmas day and that was only a flying visit to drop off a few cheap presents she was out the door as fast as she could be. She promises them things like for example,, last year we went away for the weekend just up to seans nans caravan in skegness, seans mum told the boys she would give them some spending money and drop it round the next day, she didnt, she then said she would pop it up to the caravan on the sunday, she never came instead she chose to stay in the pub, sean was furious because they were dissapointed and told his nan he was p-ssed off with his mum, low and behold we got back from town that afternoon and his mum was sat there , more or less chucked £10 at us and left for the pub again without even seeing the boys.She only ever bothers with me when she wants her her and nails doing and in the past ive done it but have recently started saying im too busy!
Trouble is the boys are getting older now, theyre very close to my mum and spend alot of time with her really, mum and dad enjoy having them and are even taking them to canada in April for a week. I dont know what to do anymore because now the boys are asking why their other nanny dont bother with them, and its breaking my heart...
other stuff has gone on to but thought you might like the shortened version....What should i do?
Right me and hubby have been together for 11 yrs, married for nearly 8. we have 2 boys aged 6&7. Seans mum hates me and our children & has on many occasions told me so,she has said she could never love anything that has come from me, she hates my kids(who are also her sons kids!!) She never came to our wedding, has picked fights with me and on a couple of occasions she has even tried to set my husband up with other women. We have disowned her several times, not because of what she does to us, but the fact that her grandaughter (seans sisters daughter) is the apple of her eye. She has taken her on holidays, bought her expensive presents and just has all the time in the world for her. Yet my kids are lucky to get a cheap gift served up in a plastic bag for their birthday. Its not the money just the fact that there ALWAYS treated second best!!!
Anyway her brother died last year and he was only 41, she says it has changed her but it hasnt... the boys havent seen her since xmas day and that was only a flying visit to drop off a few cheap presents she was out the door as fast as she could be. She promises them things like for example,, last year we went away for the weekend just up to seans nans caravan in skegness, seans mum told the boys she would give them some spending money and drop it round the next day, she didnt, she then said she would pop it up to the caravan on the sunday, she never came instead she chose to stay in the pub, sean was furious because they were dissapointed and told his nan he was p-ssed off with his mum, low and behold we got back from town that afternoon and his mum was sat there , more or less chucked £10 at us and left for the pub again without even seeing the boys.She only ever bothers with me when she wants her her and nails doing and in the past ive done it but have recently started saying im too busy!
Trouble is the boys are getting older now, theyre very close to my mum and spend alot of time with her really, mum and dad enjoy having them and are even taking them to canada in April for a week. I dont know what to do anymore because now the boys are asking why their other nanny dont bother with them, and its breaking my heart...
other stuff has gone on to but thought you might like the shortened version....What should i do?