Fionalex
Well-Known Member
Finding the last couple of days extremely frustrating
Yesterday I took the day off to arrange a suprise for my bf. At the last minute I get told he wont be home in the evening as he wasnt told that his son's nativity play was on so he was gonig to that. So I had to cancel everything Obviously i understand the play was extremly important, and in fact I actually went with him. I know its his ex's fault for not telling him, she tends to do it on purpose. Then tonight, I am currently all glammed up, hair done makeup dress on, to go out to celebrate that I have been promoted and then off to a christmas party, and i get a phonecall saying he's going to hospital as his son has had a bump on his head. Obviously again I know how important it is for him to be there, but then i hear nothing, i sit here, an hour later than the taxi was meant to be here, and nothing. Surely he should give me the respect to at least tell me what the hell is going on. So I have changed into my pj's and i'm feeling pretty sorry for myself.
I know how important his kids are to him, but sometimes I just feel its okay if I am let down. I am no way saying that I would expect him to just leave his kid and not go to hospital, i'm just talking in general. Sometimes if we have plans and something comes up with the kids last minute, I get dropped.
Literally feel like crying my eyes out (only reason i'm not is it took me ages to do my makeup) because I love him and just feel I dont feel important when it comes to his kids. Its like another life, and I get dropped at a split second. Does it ever get any better.
Yesterday I took the day off to arrange a suprise for my bf. At the last minute I get told he wont be home in the evening as he wasnt told that his son's nativity play was on so he was gonig to that. So I had to cancel everything Obviously i understand the play was extremly important, and in fact I actually went with him. I know its his ex's fault for not telling him, she tends to do it on purpose. Then tonight, I am currently all glammed up, hair done makeup dress on, to go out to celebrate that I have been promoted and then off to a christmas party, and i get a phonecall saying he's going to hospital as his son has had a bump on his head. Obviously again I know how important it is for him to be there, but then i hear nothing, i sit here, an hour later than the taxi was meant to be here, and nothing. Surely he should give me the respect to at least tell me what the hell is going on. So I have changed into my pj's and i'm feeling pretty sorry for myself.
I know how important his kids are to him, but sometimes I just feel its okay if I am let down. I am no way saying that I would expect him to just leave his kid and not go to hospital, i'm just talking in general. Sometimes if we have plans and something comes up with the kids last minute, I get dropped.
Literally feel like crying my eyes out (only reason i'm not is it took me ages to do my makeup) because I love him and just feel I dont feel important when it comes to his kids. Its like another life, and I get dropped at a split second. Does it ever get any better.