Spa Therapist
Well-Known Member
Hmm... well I had so many helpful and honest responses to my last thread, but I'm not sure if this is going a bit too far?
I want to know if what my husband thinks is true. You know what men are like - they brag. His friends tell him they are getting lucky almost every day! Their wives tell me that's a load of rubbish.
I try my best, and sometimes I feel more willing. When this happens he tells me how great our relationship is, but then 2 days pass without any action and he starts nagging and sulking again. It's frustrating because some days I'll be really willing to try, then he'll text me something really disrespectful like "if you don't want to sleep with me I'm going to find someone else who will" and any libido I had completely disappears :irked:
On these occasions it hasn't been any more than 4-5 days at the absolute most, and I'm actually trying my best so it just makes me think "what's the point trying to please someone who speaks to me in such a disrespectful way?" Is that just me?!
I should mention some factors which are worth considering. I had a baby 15 months ago and have suffered with postnatal depression, she still doesn't sleep through at night and I'm usually tired, I lost my Dad last year and I usually find myself thinking about him at night, I've moved to a completely new area so we can be together and we've generally had a lot of upheaval in the last 18 months.
What would you say is an OK average for us, given our circumstances? I hope this isn't inappropriate?
I want to know if what my husband thinks is true. You know what men are like - they brag. His friends tell him they are getting lucky almost every day! Their wives tell me that's a load of rubbish.
I try my best, and sometimes I feel more willing. When this happens he tells me how great our relationship is, but then 2 days pass without any action and he starts nagging and sulking again. It's frustrating because some days I'll be really willing to try, then he'll text me something really disrespectful like "if you don't want to sleep with me I'm going to find someone else who will" and any libido I had completely disappears :irked:
On these occasions it hasn't been any more than 4-5 days at the absolute most, and I'm actually trying my best so it just makes me think "what's the point trying to please someone who speaks to me in such a disrespectful way?" Is that just me?!
I should mention some factors which are worth considering. I had a baby 15 months ago and have suffered with postnatal depression, she still doesn't sleep through at night and I'm usually tired, I lost my Dad last year and I usually find myself thinking about him at night, I've moved to a completely new area so we can be together and we've generally had a lot of upheaval in the last 18 months.
What would you say is an OK average for us, given our circumstances? I hope this isn't inappropriate?