This is something I really struggled with when I first started and I actually used to break out in a sweat while I was trying to get the lashes taped down.
I was a total wreck before I even started lashing.
Through trial and error, I've now found the perfect method for me which takes me about 30 seconds! I'll try to explain as best I can.
I use micropore tape first. I actually use a craft knife to cut around the roll of tape and this gives you a half width of tape (much more comfortable for the client)
I tear off 4 lengths (4 or 5cm) and stick them to the back of my hand.
I fold the end of 2 of them over a little bit (this gives you a "tab" to lift at the end)
I ask the client to pull their bottom lid down SLIGHTLY and look up (as if they were getting eye drops in) This REALLY helps.
I tape the lashes down from the outer corner to the midde going down at an angle (remember to put your little folded tab at the outer corner)
Then do the same from the inner corner to the middle so both pieces make a gentle "V" shape.
I then put the pads on top well below the wet line of the eye. I still use pads as think it's an nice treatment for the client, I use it to wipe any excess glue and it acts as a little cushion when I am using my tweezers to isolate.
May be a bit longwinded but hope this helps the newbies. I feel your pain!
LOL xx