Don't know what to do

[NailsXpress]

Sweatheart, I know its really tough but you know what you need to do.

Pack a bag for him and leave it on the doorstep with a note saying that until he changes, he is not welcome back in your home. Dont spend time talking to him as he will just become loud and aggressive. You dont need it and neither do your children. If it not his home and you are not married, then it is simple, he is out. If he starts kicking down the door, just call the police and have them remove him. Or is you have brothers nearby get them to stay until he has gone.

Dont let him in for his other things unless someone is with you and dont listen to his sob stories. He has to prove he has changed, not just words.

hope you get through this and come out smiling. Big hugs.

 

[ilovelashes]

Get rid hun you and your kids deserve so much better x

 

[Chezzababy]

Just a wee update!

After having some very long chats, he has decided to go get help/counselling.

We have spoke to his family so they are aware of my situation. They are offering us both the help and support we need.

I know it won't happen over night, but have warned him if he messes up he is out!

thanks for all your advice

xxxx

 

[FuzzBall]

God bless and good luck chick.